UNHAPPY

HELLO FRIENDS.ITS BEEN I THINK OVER 2YEARS TRYING TO GET MYSELF TOGATHER TO HAVE GASTRIC BYPASS.I DID EVERYTHING RIGHT FOR THE DOCTOR.HE TOOK ALL THE TEST.AND ASKED ME DID I STILL WANT THE SURGERY.BUT 4WEEKS AGO.HE GAVE ME AN E-MAIL HE THINKS IT NOT SAFE.WHY DID HE HAVE TO BUILD MY HOPES UP.I GO ON FACEBOOK I REALLY DON'T KNOW WHERE I BELONG ON ANY DIET SUPPORT PAGE OR GROUP .I'M TRYING TO LOSE THIS WEIGHT.I EVEN HEARD OF HCG.CRASH DIET.BUT I'M TRYING TO GET THIS WEIGHT DOWN. BUT I FIND MYSELF SLIPPING AND NO HOPE.WELL I JUST WANTED EVERYONE TO KNOW.I DO HOPE ALL YOUR LIVES ARE GREAT WITH SUCUSS.

Hi Ednalewis

Sounds to me like you need to find a new doctor.  I think you should request a copy of ALL your medical record and notes and find a new doctor that will help you. 

Go see Keshishian ro Rabkin in California.  They are the best!!!!

Have you researched the DS?  Everyone's journey is different, but research never hurt anyone!!!!




-Jamie

I agree with the others, get a second opinion. Did he say why he felt it was not safe? Don't just give up keep pushing for what you want! Best of luck to you.

I will assume you are MO or SMO, your surgeon sounds like a jerk.  did the surgeon tell you how unsafe staying MO or SMO is and that is actually a higher risk for death to stay that way?  geesh you go a health care professional to help you.  find another surgeon, and don't give up with this small bump in the road, and for heavens sake research ALL,  before you make a decision....wishing you well