Scared
Ok I'll try and make this brief! I've been married for 14 years and for many of those years my husband treated me like I'd didn't matter and was never a priority! We have two children whom I adore! But aside from playing w them when they were babies wasn't really involved w raising thm or schooling etc. I got tired of it finally. After I had my surgery and lost all the weight I gained back my confidence and self respect. So I told him try counseling and we did! Things were good for a few months then they got worse! He's a total control freak! We have explored the divorce issue many times!!! But w/ in the past six months or so he has been on his best behavior and trying to be the model husband. Problem is my feelings are gone and I've been trying to get them back for over a year and I can't! The trust was broken and so was I!!! We recently decided to give it three months,if my feelings don't change thn we will part ways! I don't know if I can wait that long! I'm very unhappy and just wanna move on w my life! I'm scared to death to be on my own w two kids but it's what needs to be!how do I do this? How do u tell someone u can't do it anymore? Any advice would be greatly appreciated!! Thank u!!!
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