Sex after RNY

I'm finding that it just doesn't feel like it used to.  Can't bring about the big O any more.  Anyone go through this?  My husband is wanting it more now with my shrinking body but he knows its just "ho-hum" for me and he misses me enjoying it too.  I feel like I did when I was on antidepressants at one time.

I have had a little bit of that.  For me, my whole area "down there" has changed since I have lost the weight.  There are all sorts of different sensations and the same moves that used to work just don't any more.  We have done some experimenting and I think we have it figured out - but it may change as I continue to lose.  Luckily, I am so much more comfortable with my body that I actually look forward to trying new stuff - unlike before when I was too embarassed for my husband to touch me to much.

Hope that helps!  Isn't it great that we have this forum where we can talk about this stuff?

Maybe your fluctuating hormones - I would suggest getting them checked - make sure they check your testosterone level too as it is linked with desire ...