feeling sorry for myself
OMG i am so sorry to hear that. I sort of understand how you feel. I found out about 3 weeks ago that my husband has been smoking and lying about it behind my back for 4 years. I know its not another women, but hell he lied about one thing could he lie about another? Anyways, i feel really bad for you i couldn't imagine. Just take care of yourself and don't let him make you feel horrible about yourself. He obviously has issues and they are not related to you.
I'm so sorry to hear this.
I sure hope you'll find true happiness. Here's what I can tell you. Losing weight won't bring true happiness. Beauty won't bring true happiness or love, either. In fact, true love will find you beautiful for the person you are inside, regardless of what you weigh or what you look like on the outside.
Your husband cheating on you has nothing to do with what you look like or what you weigh. It has to do with him, and his ability to commit to you. I bet it's hard to see this right now, but it's all about him.
You can find happiness, but you won't get it from him. You have to start finding it in yourself.
I sure hope you'll find true happiness. Here's what I can tell you. Losing weight won't bring true happiness. Beauty won't bring true happiness or love, either. In fact, true love will find you beautiful for the person you are inside, regardless of what you weigh or what you look like on the outside.
Your husband cheating on you has nothing to do with what you look like or what you weigh. It has to do with him, and his ability to commit to you. I bet it's hard to see this right now, but it's all about him.
You can find happiness, but you won't get it from him. You have to start finding it in yourself.
Please note: I AM NOT A DOCTOR. If you want medical advice, talk to your doctor. Whatever I post, there is probably some surgeon or other health care provider somewhere that disagrees with me. If you want to know what your surgeon thinks, then ask him or her. Check out my blog.
The problem is your husband's, not yours!! Just think, if he is so low that he cheats on you, he's just going to turn around and do the same thing to that other woman. He thinks with his small head and not his big one. You are far from ugly and you may not think so at the moment, but there are a lot more fish in the sea.
Now me, I'm vindictive. I'd be changing the locks and putting his stuff out on the lawn...
Now me, I'm vindictive. I'd be changing the locks and putting his stuff out on the lawn...
HW: 260 - Consult: 241 - SW: 239 - CW: 206 - GW: 140
There are three kinds of men. The one that learns by reading. The few who learn by observation. The rest of them have to pee on the electric fence for themselves.
Will Rogers