8 lbs from goal, any advice?

Lisa R.
on 12/5/11 4:54 am - CA
 I am 153 and my goal is 145.  I would love to reach goal by the beginning of the new year, but I know that might be asking too much.  I have a knee surgery coming up in a week and a half so excersice this month is out of the question.  

What other things should I make sure to do to get these last 8 lbs off!  And, once I reach my goal how do I stop losing?  I know people say add carbs but I am still so new out from surgery, only 7 months, that it seems no matter how I eat I lose eventually.  Well, I don't eat bad often, but I don't want to eat bad.  I don't want to get back into having carbs at every meal.  So how do I stop when the time comes?  Other then carbs?
  
The question isn’t who is going to let me; it’s who is going to stop me. ~ Ayn Rand        
poet_kelly
on 12/5/11 5:00 am - OH
If you are still  losing and want to stop losing, you'll need to add in more calories.  Those calories do not need to come from carbs.  When I landed 18 pounds below goal and wanted to stop losing, I added more calories, mostly from protein.

But to get the last eight pounds off, just keep doing what you've done to get where you are now.  You know how to do it.

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Please note: I AM NOT A DOCTOR.  If you want medical advice, talk to your doctor.  Whatever I post, there is probably some surgeon or other health care provider somewhere that disagrees with me.  If you want to know what your surgeon thinks, then ask him or her.    Check out my blog.

 

Lisa R.
on 12/5/11 5:07 am - CA
 I know that I know how to do this, I have lost 100 lbs!  But I just feel like it has been too easy....I know that is bad to say!

I have not excercised, I have not struggled really.  Sometimes I have bad days.  I have eatten sugar. I eat out at least once a week.  I just wonder if this is really me doing the work or the surgery doing the work.  Does that make sense?

I don't feel like other then eating less carbs and eating really small protions I have done much to promote this weight loss.
  
The question isn’t who is going to let me; it’s who is going to stop me. ~ Ayn Rand        
poet_kelly
on 12/5/11 5:11 am - OH
Losing the weight seemed pretty easy to me, too.  So did maintenance for the first year, I'd say.  It's only been the last six months or so that it's seemed hard to me.


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Please note: I AM NOT A DOCTOR.  If you want medical advice, talk to your doctor.  Whatever I post, there is probably some surgeon or other health care provider somewhere that disagrees with me.  If you want to know what your surgeon thinks, then ask him or her.    Check out my blog.

 

Lisa R.
on 12/5/11 6:54 am - CA
 Explain hard.  How did it become hard?  What changed?  Details please
  
The question isn’t who is going to let me; it’s who is going to stop me. ~ Ayn Rand        
poet_kelly
on 12/5/11 7:00 am - OH
I could eat more food at a time and found myself feeling hungry more often.  Before that, I never worried about getting too many calories.  It was hard to get the calories I needed just to maintain my weight.  Now, though. I have to be careful because it's easy to take in too many.

Also, psychologically, I find it more challenging now.  It's easy for me to tell myself oh, I can eat one cookie, that won't hurt anything.  And it won't - unless I eat one an hour later, and eat one tomorrow for breakfast, and eat one tomorrow for lunch.... you get the picture.  For some reason I wasn't having those kinds of thoughts so much earlier out, but now I do.

View more of my photos at ObesityHelp.com          Kelly

Please note: I AM NOT A DOCTOR.  If you want medical advice, talk to your doctor.  Whatever I post, there is probably some surgeon or other health care provider somewhere that disagrees with me.  If you want to know what your surgeon thinks, then ask him or her.    Check out my blog.

 

Lisa R.
on 12/5/11 8:01 am - CA
I wonder why that happens. It's like 2 years out it all just stops working. I'm not looking forward to that day. Do you think more people actually really stay thin after this or do most regain. I wonder sometimes if I am still going to be able to do all this in 10 years
  
The question isn’t who is going to let me; it’s who is going to stop me. ~ Ayn Rand        
poet_kelly
on 12/5/11 8:06 am - OH
Well, the malabsorption of calories goes away, but it does so gradually, it's not like one day it works and the next it's all gone.  But there is always restriction.  My pouch will never be the size my stomach used to be and while I can eat more now than I could right after surgery, I can't eat nearly as much as I did pre op.  Now, I can eat about one and a half slices of pizza (thin crust).  Before, I could eat four or flive slices, followed by a whole pint of ice cream.  I'll never do that again.

I think most people regain a small amount but not a lot.  I hear people refer to "bounce back weight" and that's common, though not everyone has it.  And some gain a lot back but it seems like not too many.

View more of my photos at ObesityHelp.com          Kelly

Please note: I AM NOT A DOCTOR.  If you want medical advice, talk to your doctor.  Whatever I post, there is probably some surgeon or other health care provider somewhere that disagrees with me.  If you want to know what your surgeon thinks, then ask him or her.    Check out my blog.

 

cajungirl
on 12/5/11 5:07 am
My opinion ~ don't stop the weight loss.  Your body will level out when it's ready and you MAY very well see a bounceback, why not give yourself some cushion so hopefully you'll land at your goal weight when things settle down.


The last 10-20 lbs come off much slower than when you have more to lose.  Don't stress yourself out trying to get the 8 lbs off before the end of the year, continue to eat healthy you should reach beyond your goal soon enough.

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nfarris79
on 12/5/11 6:02 am - Germantown, MD
 I'd second the letting yourself lose a bit more than you intended. Giving yourself some wiggle room while not getting down TOO low may be a good idea. Adding calories (and not the "bad" way like refined sugar & junk food) ends up being easier than you'd think - my NUT told me to up my intake to 1200 while I'm losing and then up it again to 1400 when I reach goal. (Goal itself just recently got revised. For some reason I thought my goal was going to be 145 but turns out that I have to be below 141 to be "normal" BMI for my height. Ugh!).

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