Dealing with a food nazi at home
You might need to tell him that you have done nothing wrong !!! and he needs to BACK OFF ,him telling you that you are a failure is just plain cruel and ABUSIVE , he needs to rethink his behavior and when you are strong enough I think you need to figure out how you want to be treated in life.
One of my daughter's was divorced 4 years after bypass , she was willing to live with abusive behavior and contributed to her own misery , I hope you won't be like her
It is none of his business if you can control yourself or not unless you asked him to "help" you
Sorry this got a bit dark :(
Donna Q. --5'8" -60 years old
Band 2005
hw320 sw276 lw with band 195 gw 160-180?
Bypass 4/4/2012
pre sw 258 lw RNY 162 cw 203
I'm now in my second marriage and while it has lasted longer than the first one, many of the same issues that were wedges in the first one have been present in this one for quite some time...I'm just making every effort to respond differently...
It may not be such a bad idea, at some point, to lay down the law in terms that he can understand and see if things improve...if not, then you'll have a decision to make as to whether or not you call your lawyer...
Banded Oct 2008: 290
RNY Feb 2012: 245
Dr's set goal: 170 reached Oct 11, 2012
My goal: 160 reached Dec 1, 2012
Today : 145-150
I am half the person I was in 2008.
Oh, and btw, I Put mayo and/or ketchup on just about everything I eat and I'm having great success. He's not even a good food nazi--not that there's any such thing as a good food nazi.
Please note: I AM NOT A DOCTOR. If you want medical advice, talk to your doctor. Whatever I post, there is probably some surgeon or other health care provider somewhere that disagrees with me. If you want to know what your surgeon thinks, then ask him or her. Check out my blog.
Seems like time for a heart to heart before a foot to ass happens.
Laura
HW: 311 SW:264 (size 24) CW: 174 (size 14) Surgeon's Goal: 176 My GW: 149
Weight Loss Month 1: 20 pounds! Weight Loss Month 2: 17 pounds!
Weight Loss Month 3: 12 pounds! Weight Loss Month 4: 10 pounds!
Weight Loss Month 5: 12 pounds! Weight Loss Month 6: 6 pounds!
Weight Loss Month 7: 6 pounds! Weight Loss Month 8:
25 pound to my goal!