Trash Talk At Sleep Study
Lora
14 years out; 190 pounds lost, 165 pound loss maintained
You don't drown by falling in the water. You drown by staying there.
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This surgery is just a tool and the average excess weight loss (EWL) for RNY, maintained at 5 years, is 50%. The few long term vets (5 years +) that hang out here are exceptions rather than the rule - most of us have maintained near 100% EWL and I don't believe that is a coincidence ...
No WLS has 100% (or anywhere near) success rate ... It is very much down to the individual to achieve a good EWL and even more so to maintain it!
There may be a modicum of truth to his statement but it really probably is just a modicum!
Proud Feminist, Atheist, LGBT friend, and Democratic Socialist
I would complain to his supervisor. He has no business commenting on your surgery at all, and certainly should not be lying to patients about the success rate of any surgery - and that is absolutely a lie.
Please note: I AM NOT A DOCTOR. If you want medical advice, talk to your doctor. Whatever I post, there is probably some surgeon or other health care provider somewhere that disagrees with me. If you want to know what your surgeon thinks, then ask him or her. Check out my blog.
When I woke up the morning after my RNY, the roommate I had the first night in the hospital was getting ready to leave (she'd been there months with difficulties with her revision WLS). Just after she left, the cleaning lady came in, and she was this size 0-is-too-large type of person, and she sat there and bad-mouthed WLS patients for a good twenty minutes. "There always back here within a few months with awful complications, big fat stupid lazy cows...." and on and on and on.
NOT nice to hear when you're not even 24 hours out of surgery.
It's part of the whole "information and ignorance curve" when it comes to Weight Loss Surgery. Naturally thin people (some of them) seem to have this idea that fat people have their mouths permanently attached to some food trough, and aare disgusting people who are lazy as hell. They just don't understand how it can be.
Today I think this was brought home to me pretty sharply. One of my former students -- involved in sports each semester -- and when I saw her today (she graduated 2 years ago, so this is four years after she was my student) and she looked like she was pushing 220 lbs. And where did I see her? Still helping out with the swim team that she was a member of all four years of her high school. I know she was diagnosed with PCOS during her sophomore year of high school.
Is this super-athlete deserving of the kind of scorn that these skinny-minnies like to dish out? NOPE! I hate stereotypes.
~Lady Lithia~ 200 lbs lost!
March 9, 2011 - Coccygectomy!
I chased my dreams, and my dreams, they caught me!

Please note: I AM NOT A DOCTOR. If you want medical advice, talk to your doctor. Whatever I post, there is probably some surgeon or other health care provider somewhere that disagrees with me. If you want to know what your surgeon thinks, then ask him or her. Check out my blog.






