NERVOUS..... RNY SURGERY on Monday 11/05/12
Hey everybody I new here to the forum but just wanted to say thank you for all the support Already. Reading the forums has made this journey so much easier... I just wanted to know if how I feel two days before surgery is normal? I am really excited that its finally here and the start to a new life, but I'm also scared and nervous out of my mind....... I'm having thoughts about the surgery, like am I making the right decision???? Anyone else feel this way a few days before surgery. ?
I had my surgery on the 29th. I was sooo nervous, came very close to backing out! I went through all the what if's, asking myself if I was creating more problems than I had. I came through the surgery just fine, my recovery has been good. I am so happy I did this:) Just remember to sip,sip,sip and get your protein in! You will do great!!!! Please keep in touch, I will be thinking of you:)
Having surgery same date & although I'm not too nervous (or at least that's what I've convinced myself of) I can completely understand. I can't say that I'm no longer nervous at all because, really, who wouldn't be. But I am trying to look at ALL of the positive that will come of this. It is going to open so many doors for me that I'm trying to focus on those.
I've been keeping busy the last couple days doing things done around the house that I won't be able to for a little bit afterwards. Making my lists (and checking them twice, three times & more) to be sure I have everything listed as to what I need to take & do.
Good luck with your surgery. I'm sure you'll do wonderful.
Keep us updated :)
My surgery date is 11/14 and I am totally feeling the same way you are, SO many thoughts going through my mind PLUS I start my liquid diet tomorrow in preparation, so today I am having my "farewell to food" dinner (LOL) because eating as I know it will change after today. We know why we chose to have surgery, go through all the hoops, etc. I am sure it was not a decision that has come to you lightly (excuse the pun) - I know for me it is good health, the number one reason, - of course the added bonus will be many other positives, like being able to tie my shoes, cross my legs, fit in a booth, wipe my ....., etc... you get the picture (not too pretty!!) - best of luck to you.......(to us both!!)
Nerves are normal...hang in there. I had my surgery 1 week ago on 10/26. I feel amazing! I am thrilled with how I feel ..each day got better. It really felt like I did a million sit ups and was achy.
the most important advice I can give you is what everyone else says here...walk, rest, sip...do your breathing exercises...and repeat.
Thank you so much everyone..... :) I feel much better knowing that its not only me that felt this way.... I have a bf who is trying everything he can to convince me not to get the surgery and it just put a damper on things for me. But yes like u all said we know the reason we made the decision. And I just have to remind myself of that. My BIGGEST worry is loose skin. But I guess we will hit that road when we get there.
