Embarrassment

You will be amazed at how quickly things change. We are very similar. My highest was 305, I am also 5'7". Surgery day was 12/4/12. Today I was 226. I feel so much better already. No more reflux, no swollen legs, I'm actually discovering I do have ankles! And I cross my legs all the time!! I just feel better, mentally and physically. I have a long way to go, but I know now that I can do this....I can't wait for you to experience it!! Good luck!! It's amazing.....

I would also recommend printing out your post - as a reminder of why you want this surgery. In case you ever have those buyer's remorse moments - or times when you question yourself.

Every time I second guessed my decision pre op - something "fat" happened.

Oh, boy, do I know where you are coming from! When I go to eat with someone, I always ask for a table. I then do not sit on the isle side so I won't have to move my chair in every time someone goes by. I get so embarrassed when I have to sit in a booth. I feel like everyone is watching to see if I can get in and out of it! I am going to my 4th nut visit next week, and will have two more after that! I can't wait to get to the other side!

I can't wait to cross my legs either, especially in church! Uggghhhh, the tying shoes is ridiculous. I have to step into them and put my leg up on a chair so I can get to them. I will not be having the surgery until July or August, and I am just taking this one day at a time trying to get into a routine of things to come!

Wishing you the best and hope your time flies!

Connie

 I can absolutely empathize with you.  Every thing you mentioned  was a part of my pre-op life. WLS really was one of the best things I ever did for myself. Like the others said, make a list of these things as a reminder for later on.

Best Wishes!

Kat

 

We are very close...I was 289.5 and 5'  7.5"  only you are much younger. So you will be very happy with yourself by this time next year.  Keep your eye on the prize...

Thank you everyone. It's nice to share without judgement