I'm angry and I want to eat.

Katie K.
on 7/25/13 1:57 am - Maitland, FL
RNY on 06/25/13

I'm mad at my roommate for eating half of the chicken I bought last night. It was supposed to last me all weekend, and he swore when he moved in that he wouldn't eat my food. Get to work and have to do my coworker's job because my boss told me to. They've been working on a project and she hasn't been able to get to this part. The last two days she didn't do much in the morning and could have done it herself. Instead, she spent all the time on facebook while I did my job *and* hers.

This all makes me want to eat. I'm having a difficult time with this right now.

    

    
poet_kelly
on 7/25/13 2:03 am - OH

I understand why you're angry.

Is there a way you can express/release some anger other than eating?  'Cause in my experience, eating might kinda stuff that anger down or dull it a little bit, but it isn't really a very good way to relieve anger.  It's more a way of just stuffing it back inside.

I think posting about it here is a good start.  Would talking about it more help?  Going for a walk?  Sometimes loud music helps me when I'm angry.  Or what about exercising?  Or cleaning something?

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Katie K.
on 7/25/13 2:14 am - Maitland, FL
RNY on 06/25/13
I ordered new lenses for my glasses yesterday. They just called and said they're ready. It only takes a couple of minutes to walk there, so I'm going now.

I did eat a couple of pieces of beef jerky. Better than the glorified candy protein bar.

I have therapy tonight, thank God. Thus will be discussed.

    

    
saterry
on 7/25/13 2:27 am - IN
Revision on 10/03/13

You have every right to express in an honest, calm way, exactly how these two people have affected you. Tell them how you feel, how their actions caused you extra work and what your expectations are in the future.

Standing up for yourself and giving value to your feelings can be quite liberating and can bring the anger level down that you are experiencing right now.

Or-----Exlax brownies for both of them !  LOL  just kidding

SRVG 1997 SW 301   Revision to RNY 10/3/13 SW 247 GW 130  Ht 5'8

    

illinois Gama D.
on 7/25/13 3:10 am

excellent reply but had to tell you it did make me laugh and bring back great memories, I cannot stand BIL and neither could co workers, guess what he got once, YEP, e-lax in ice cream Sammy, I am not mean spirited but he was miserable and I was so happy:)

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saterry
on 7/25/13 4:33 am - IN
Revision on 10/03/13

Hahaha ! I HEARD that Visene eye drops will also do bad things to the GI system. Its just what I heard.......I swear.

SRVG 1997 SW 301   Revision to RNY 10/3/13 SW 247 GW 130  Ht 5'8

    

BWB
on 7/25/13 7:25 am

If you are giving 100% or more at work, you can protest and get results.  Think about it and when you find an opportunity, let her know that you know about her facebook time.  Employer's are losing a lot of money from paying people to play online at work.

               
PetHairMagnet
on 7/25/13 7:54 am
RNY on 05/13/13

I would report her for using FB at work. I am SO glad it is blocked at my company-I cannot imagine how much time is wasted at any company that does not block it!

Second, you need to have a very serious chat with your roommate and if he is unable to control himself (and buy you a new chicken, STAT!) then he needs to go!

But don't punish YOURSELF for things others have done. Glad you have therapy to talk through this!

    

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Katie K.
on 7/25/13 9:38 am - Maitland, FL
RNY on 06/25/13
My therapist is glad that I have you guys, too

    

    
JustMeNC
on 7/25/13 9:08 am - NC

I'm sorry you've got rude people stressing you.  I am only 2 weeks out, and have had to deal with lots of stress myself, and usually turn to food, and thankful at this point for the RNY.  I CANT use food, so I've turned to walking... and hopefully I can retrain my brain to do something for myself when stressed instead of turning to food and sabotoging myself.

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