Heart broken
Just make sure you try to take up as much free time as you can (especially in the beginning). Go out with friends, family, co-workers.... exercise like a demon lol..... find some good books to read....

Maureen Tired of Living my Life in the Dark ![]()
I'm sorry you've been hurt. He's a jack***. Focus on taking care of yourself, and someone who will treat you better will come along.
6'3" tall, male.
Highest weight was 475. RNY on 08/21/12. Current weight: 198.
M1 -24; M2 -21; M3 -19; M4 -21; M5 -13; M6 -21; M7 -10; M8 -16; M9 -10; M10 -8; M11 -6; M12 -5.
Its funny how guys change. I honestly believe he has insecurity issues and now that he knows you are on your way to losing weight and getting healthy he can't handle it. More guys will be paying attention to you and he won't be able to handle it the attention you are going to get. I say give it time, let him work out his own issues and insecurities and if he doesn't come back I say good riddance as he wasn't for you. The right man is going to come along and be supportive of you in every way. Hang in there and look toward a brighter future!!!
Wow what a piece of work he is. Thankfully you didn't have to waste more of your precious life on him, remember he is scum and when he comes back begging, don't ever speak to him. Remember he tried to sabotage you and your health and happiness, now show him what he gave up. Happiness is the best revenge. What a loser.




