Heart broken

Thanks and good luck on ur surgery!

Once you get some distance and perspective on this you will see he did you a favor.  You need to take care of yourself in the time being.  Don't let his issues derail you in the process. I'm sorry we guys can be such jackasses. 

I just feel so let down. I used to tell him everything bc he was my best friend now I just feel all alone. 

I am sorry this is have to go this, but he is not worth it. Sounds like a selfish jerk who used your surgery as an excuse to end the relationship. Regardless of his reason, you deserve to be treated better than that. There will be someone else later who will come along who will care about you for all the right reasons and your surgery won't matter at all, just that you are healthy and made a wise decision.

Now, take care of yourself, you did this surgery for you not that jerk, so be kind to yourself!

 

Thank you so much for your kind words

(((((Lostinaparkinglot)))))

I am so sorry you have been given so much to deal with. My heart goes out to you. I know are going through a lot of physical and emotional pain from your surgery and now you have to deal with this...not fair. I agree with everyone else that you can definitely do better and you will eventually find someone who adores you and treats you like the amazing woman you are...inside and out. 

I've been there and totally understand. The best advice I can give you is take your time to cry and grieve so you can heal. It has helped me in the past to journal, both the good aspects of your relationship and the hurt you are feeling now. Maybe it helps to look at this as a time of renewal and new beginnings...you are embarking on a new life, new relationship with yourself and new relationship with others. Write out the qualities and attributes you want in your next partner; I know it sounds hokey, but amazing things have happened in my life when I have done this. 

Like others have said, I also believe things happen for a reason. Now is the time to focus on yourself and surround yourself with people who will support you, celebrate the small and big victories with you, and stand by your side no matter what life throws at you. I know how hard it is, but don't let this interfere with your health. Drink and eat, even when you don't want to because you've invested so much in yourself to get to this point, ya got to keep on keepin' on to get where you're supposed to be.  Wishing you the best. We're here for you. 

Thank you so much! It has give me kind of a new push to start working out and start living my life.  Prob is I have like no friends bc I didn't need anyone but him. Guess it time to make new friends like you said. 

Try Meetup.com - there are TONS of groups out there - pick something you enjoy doing and sign up.   

So sorry you are having to deal with this on top of the struggles you are having since surgery. He is NOT worth you, let yourself grieve the hurt then move on. You are gorgeous some man is going to treat you with love and respect when you least expect it.

He's making excuses because of his insecurities. Possibly suspects you'll leave his ass when you are healed and at goal. Yes it happens more often than you think. Surround yourself with family and friends that care. Time will heal the heart break .

Thanks! I really always felt he thought I would leave him once I was smaller, but I never planned on it. He used to treat me like gold and like I was his goddess. I feel like he gonna be irreplaceable even tho he did a dirty thing to me