H.A.L.A B.’s Posts
on 5/7/23 8:46 am
You are too short? I'm not only too short, but I'm shrinking. I used to be 5' 4" now I'm 5'3". BMI can kiss my ass.
BTW- because of my active life when I was younger, + genetics, strong wide bones and wide frame, BMI is not a good indicator for my body fat%. I need to be at least 5 lbs heavier from my highest normal BMI to be OK. When my body gets to high normal BMI - I'm actually underweight- sickly looking and feeling. Even though I had some skin removed during body conturing surgery- there always would be extra skin on me plus extra fat cells - maybe empty fat cells when I'm at my ideal for me weight, but they are still there, empty, hungry - just looking to get full. Bustards.
Anyway
Qotd: I'm lately into audiobooks mostly, I just have more time to listen to them than sit and read.
Do you like sci-fi? Funny books- pallet cleanser for me laughing outloud -Bobiverse, or "Monster hunter International", or now I'm in a middle of "Exeditionary force" by Craig Alanson series (hilarious)
Dark book but really "Empire of the Vampire" - by Jay Kristof - the book is crazy good, audio specially. The narrator (don't tell Keith) his voice...OMG ...naf said.. it's not your typical vampire book. My sci-fi group on FB strongly recommended it, and I got it. Then I bought a brand new hardcopy- I never - or really selm buy new books, and very seldom hard copy... it's dark and depressing..and it's a first book in series...first and only for now...
From different genre, funny - adventure type - Clive Cusler - his Dirk Pitt series, or Numa...easy to read, or listen to. "Good people wins all the time and Americans are the best".
There are the plenty of Baldacci books. Some stupid but most entertaining. And popular so easy to get in a library. His Camel club series was good. His Vega Jane -YA fantasy (kind of Harry Potter with a young girl as main character). Was cleanand easy to read- listen to. And so on. I don't care about his "Maxwell and King" books, they are rather stupid.
Spy- assassin books- Mitch Rapp series by Vince Flynn (later Kyle Mills). Or ex military Jack Reacher series by Lee Child. Simple, easy to read, and always "good wins against bad" books.
And a detective series with a touch or romance and sci-fi - "Ã--Ã--Ã-- In death" series by JD Robb (aka Nora Roberts). I think there are like 50 of them?
I don't read books- I inhale them. Lol. There are so many I really like for different reasons..
What books you like? BTW-" SK books - I can read - listen to sometimes- maybe one book every 3- 4 months. They are too "heavy" for me in my current life- stress.
Dean Koontz books are ok. His Odd Thomas series is OK. The first book - they made it into a movie so you can start there. Weird..but ok. That's why I read his books- they are all weird. And of course Jack Ryan series by Clancy. They are good, ok, but again- long and full of political issues" so I can handle one every few months. Some are more difficult to get into than others.
As for movies - series- I'm not much in that now. When I work late I often turn on and "watch" (as I'm working - I have 3 monitors at work so one can be sacrificed for a movie when I do something mandane like compile a report, balance books, etc.). The 3 FBI series- FBI, FBI international, FBI most wanted - they are my to go "noise generators" (late in the office by myself- and we do have ghosts - "spirits" in there, that sometimes tried to make me leave). And the Seal team, and Swat team. Older cute matcho buffed guys to look at. Lol. Why not?
Yesterday I just sat around and did almost nothing. I planned to do so many things ...or rather hoped to do.. I did my laundry (personal), plus I re-baked and stripped the roasted chicken from Costco. I have the clean chicken meat that I can make into easy dishes in 15 min - I have some Kevin's sauces that makes plain chicken very good.
And ... in a middle of the day Yesterday I step on a scale that happily showed me below 160... I lose in steps. I was 162.5 +/-2 lbs for close to 2 weeks. Then yesterday- 158.. loss of 4.5 lbs in 3 days. I'll probably would be stuck here for another 2 weeks. That's ok.
Accontability: I finished my strawberries plus started on blueberries... so I had at least 16 oz of berries yesterday. One berry at a time. Ugh. Plus the SIETE chips. Finished the bag. Unless I can control how much I eat of the chips - I may have to stop buying them. I'm not a chip person. Never was, so that is new to me. They are super light, crunchy, and salty just the right amount. But...they hurt my lip now- the stupid fever blister
Lately my IF lasts until 2 or 4 pm at work or home). At work- we have manufacturing in our office building so there are 3 shifts - 11:30, 12, the office people start around 1... I hate prepping my lunch with others looking into my stuff... I hate people leaning over my dishes trying to figure our what I making...and asking me a bunch of questions...or asking to taste it. When I can get my 15 min lunch I don't want to be disturbed..
And there is a break 2-2:45... ugh. So I often wait until 3 to reheat my lunch. Or 3:30
There are "innocent questions " but when you are bothered by them every day, it's annoying. The expectation that someone would pop into the kitchen "because your food smells so good" is really annoying. Yes, people have no boundaries- they would lift the cover of the skilet witn me present there to see "what I'm making ". No boundaries. Even though I'm a boss. Then they bombard me with questions how I make it. Ugh. Absolutely hate that. Or, as I'm slicing an avocado they stay and stare and tell me they love avocado and ask if I'm going to eat the whole thing. Really. I'm out of ideas how to correct that.
They share some foods between each others... so they expect me to share also. But what they eat- i.e. pizza, cakes, cookies, bread, etc. - is not something I want to eat.
I probably need to address the issue with their manager. He can tell them to leave me alone when I'm in the kitchen prepping my lunch.
Menu
Liquids- coffee tea water electrolytes
Lunch: eggs? Maybe frittata... but I really want to bake the bacon today to have a grab and go pieces.
D: something with chicken or liver - I may just have liver and spinach, and hopefully I can make liver pate...(I like liver and when I crave it- drooling - means I need the iron and minerals)
S: rest of the blueberries, cheese, maybe some belgium endive for crunch
I really hope I can do some cooking- baking- prepping today.
And we need to set up Keith's work space downstairs. He twisted his ankle and getting up and down the stairs to get to his cave - where he works remotely from, is aggravating his ankle. Based on my experience with injury like that - it may take a 6 months before he can heal that. Injuries like that in "people of certain age" takes longer to heal. It can be arthritis or sprain, strain of ligaments- all of these combined. We have ankle braces, lidocaine patches, k-tape, red IR light, plus he gets acupuncture plus... A complete healing still can take 6-12 months. 6 months to improve by 90% the next 10% - takes another 6 months based on my experience with pulling, twisting or slightly teared ligaments (full recovery- no residue pain). So best if we set his office downstairs for at least 6 months.
We will see. He is stubborn so often reluctant to change. I never push him, just suggest, then suggest some more...and offer to help. Then I back off.
Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG
"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"
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"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."

on 5/6/23 5:15 pm
Hugs. I hope you feel better.
Unfortunately I get FOS once in a while even though I get daily BM and I'm very diligent about taking miralax and magnesium. For me - longer IF plus a extra serving of miralax often helps me to determine if constipation is an issue. I also consider stomach virus- food poisoning a possibility when I feel like you describe.
TMI - Because of low gut motility - my system can take 1-2 full days before I start getting "looser BM". Not really runs, but easier, with more gas".
I hope it's not hernia. Ugh.
Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG
"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"
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"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."

on 5/6/23 5:06 pm
I'm so sorry about the fall. What most people who are not in pain don't know is that any extra injuries to us can get the pain well above the "normal levels". It sucks. And it takes a while for things to get back to the same pain as we deal with everyday.
I'm glad you and your mom decided to stop going to that house at least for a while. The dust, debris, plus any type of animal remains- feces can seriously affect breathing and bring on more allergies.
Often hoarding is brought by mental issues and a few shows I saw about hoarding- the main hoarder would have a fit about cleanup.
Maybe they don't care if the kids are taken from them for good?
Hugs and best wishes.
Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG
"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"
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"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."

on 5/6/23 10:19 am, edited 5/6/23 3:20 am
I didn't have a large pannie before or after. But when I got to the goal I had some lose skin in that area. I used special powders to prevent rubbing - sores. Plus I used light compression garmets to put things where they belonged.
Light- I would buy 2-3 size bigger than my actual size, to hold things in, but not squeeze me in completely. Just enough to contain the lose skin. I.e. my bottom got to size S but I would buy size L-Xl of light compression garments (summer time). I needed to be able to move in them, wear them for 10-12 hrs at a time. I would buy some I could try on- i.e. Kohls- or other stores. Put them on, then bend, twist, sit down, to see if they would stay up, allow me to move comfortably. I would have them on for 10-15 min in a fitting room, then would remove them and look at my skin for lines they caused - if there was too much compression- the seams would dig in, and I knew I would cut that in small pieces and burn them just after 1 day wearing them. I would get a next size and try again. Some designs are too restrictive - doesn't allow for breathing or moving around. I didn't want to squash things - I wanted my skin supported..
One of my friends with a much bigger panus- used bike shorts - also 1-3 size bigger that she was wearing in normal clothes.
Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG
"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"
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"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."

on 5/6/23 10:02 am, edited 5/6/23 9:58 am
I have a Canadian citizenship so the UK king/queen is also our king/queen. But I have no desire to watch the celebration. I don't have a lot respect for the current UK king, so I don't really want to watch that.
I skipped OFFICE work yesterday. I was very tired, it took me forever to wake up, then I was just super grouchy. Any little things irritated me. So I stayed home, irritated myself only (and Keith- a little bit), and took care of a few things from home. Worked app 6-7 hrs total remotely. Next week would be interesting. Very busy. Plus I have bunch of appointments.
I had a consultation with a laser person to see if she can use that to shrink - close some capillaries- blood vessels on my face- my cheek. I have an appointment in 2.5 weeks. It's not even that expensive, $100 per treatment, and if the procedure doesn't work, she is not going to charge me.
My lip condition is slowly improving. After just 2 applications of the Rx cream, it stopped spreading, and it stopped hurting/burning all the time. It still huts if I touch it, or accidentally bump it. But I can drink from a cup now. I had to use a straw all the time. I forgot how bad the fever blister can get. But...it would take another week to heal it completely. Great.
Not sure what I will do today. I went to bed early and got up late. In bed 11 rs, slept at least 8 full hours. Sleep is one thing I can count on.
Qotd???? No question...
Menu:
Liquids
L: something- maybe salad with chicken or frittata.
D: I really want so roast beef
S: cheese, strawberries, apple. Maybe some SIETE chips.
I really want to cook today. I want to make ghee, keto cloud bread and buns, egg white tortilla, and liver pate. Plus I have some pork shoulder to cook, plus need to disassemble roasted chicken, and check some meat in the fridge. Toss it or use it in a dish.
I hope I can do that this weekend.
Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG
"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"
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"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."

on 5/5/23 12:48 pm
We had a few geniuses in math at my department at university. 4-5?. I wax jealous I couldn't "get it". They actually understood the numbers theory and could visualize (in their brains) the multidimensional universe and solve theorems and field equations anc complex calculous, and and .... they couldn't really explain that to a more normal person.
Yesrs later, when i was already living in USA, and tried to reconnect with people from my university- i learned that "the geniuses" - 2 of them were dead, one was in a mental institution, one on permanent disability for untreatable depression. My first year roommate, who like me, was studyning got Advanced Engineering Physics (optics), and after got PhD in Physics (she was smart - almost brilliant), got psychosis and possible schizophrenia.. We were good friends when we were studying for at least 3- 4 years. She got weird in fifth year. Our program was 5year - finishing with MSc Engineering Physics - or Advanced Mathematics (we had to pick fields of study after 1-2 year).
I stopped being jealous of people that were able to understand more things than I did.
I learned to appreciate myself and my abilities, and not "ask" for more.
Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG
"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"
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"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."

on 5/5/23 12:18 pm
Just cats or brisket and cats... I'm easy...
Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG
"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"
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"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."

on 5/5/23 11:40 am
BTW - geometry and algebra were my 2 favorite math subsubjects. Calculus - I loved dearly, then I ended up in seriously advanced calculus at my university and ...I stopped loving it. After test class I adamantly switched to engineering physics. Initially I was planning to get a degree in Advacend Practcal Mathematics. Nope. My brain. Was too normal for that.
Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG
"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"
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"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."

on 5/5/23 11:34 am
Some people shouldn't be allowed to cook - reheat.
There was a lady (in her late 50s) that worked for us for a few months. It was someone's birthday and I bought pies for the whole office because that what he wanted.
I asked her to set up the conference room for the birthday celebration and reheat the pies in the oven (to crisp up the flaky tops and bottoms). Since she didn't know how to operate the simple oven we had, he placed the 3 pies in the microwave. With the metal/aluminum shells they were in. One of top of the other. When that caught on fire inside the microwave, she left the kitchen and closed the kitchen doors because it was sparkling and making noise. Yeap. Really.
The smell and noise from behind closed doors attracted someone's attention. It's a miracle she didn't burn the whole building. We had to replace the microwave and the cabinets above and besides the microwave.
She was let go right after we dealt with the fire. Her excuse " nobody told her you can't put metal in a microwave " (she had one at home) and she didn't know how to operate our "cheap" oven. So it was the office fault, not hers.
She applied for unemployment and was denied (she only had 2 months continued work history in the last 5 years). She tried to sue us for wrongful termination, but she couldn't find a lawyer who would take her case for free- or for proceeds from winning the law suit (people who knew her in RL told me about that later on).
I had some really special people in the office...but she was special...
Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG
"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"
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"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."

on 5/5/23 11:12 am
Lol. I was reading the title and initially I read it as "what's your pain" (not plan)
I had to read it again. My medicated lip is doing better pain wise. But in the shower the water ripped it open, so that's new. But unless I touch it, or try to talk, or yawn, etc, it's fine. (It was burning, hurting ALL the time before, with a really bad pain when I touched it). Progress, not perfection, right?
And my knees are burning up. But that comes and goes. I found (Costco) grain free chips, that are absolutely wonderful. SIETE grain free tortilla chips. They are made with cassava flour, cassava starch, coconut flour, chia seeds and avocado oil. And sea salt. Really good, and they didn't (yet) gave me RH, even though they are full of carbs.
My gut objects to them only a little bit. But starches and my gut = arthritis pain/burning. For someone who can't have any other chips, I went a bit crazy on them yesterday. The positive thing - a great BM this morning.
I eat stuff like that then wonder why I'm not losing...I'm not gaining so that's fine for now.still app 12 lbs to my goal.
Qotd: cooking? Putting too much salt then I had to double the recipe to reduce the sodium per a serving. Forgot to add baking powder and ended up with cake/cookies absolutely inedible. Or adding too much stevia - making the baked good inedible. Too much stevia makes the stevia aftertaste- bitterness and some, much much stronger that the sweet taste, and there is no way to fix that.
Accountability. Yea, too many chips, and fruits. I had 2 apples and a bowl of strawberries. Carbs galore yesterday. That's OK. I'll call it my "recarb day".
Menu for me
Liquids
Late lunch: cheese cut in small strip so I can put in my mouth without opening it too wide.
D: maybe Cesar salad with chicken. So something else... ugh..
Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG
"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"
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"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."

on 5/4/23 3:56 pm
OK... WOW....Ok then...
Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG
"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"
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"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."

on 5/4/23 3:42 pm
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Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG
"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"
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"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."

on 5/4/23 3:39 pm
Wow Love them. Pretty then, pretty now... You haven't change much. Maybe except the backpack.
Love it.
Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG
"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"
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"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."

on 5/4/23 11:27 am
You tolerate a lot from your Brother and SIL. I can imagine your mom is the enabler.
And since you did not mention it - they are problem not helping much with decluttering - removing the trash.
Before now - did you know how bad it was? how bad it really was?
Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG
"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"
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"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."

on 5/4/23 11:24 am
Our IMAX + regular screen theater is 5-7 min from us. For popular movies - one of us would swing by and get tickets in advance. Since i like large screen, or IMAX, those tickets are supper pricey. I would hate to pay more to get it on line.
Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG
"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"
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"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."

on 5/4/23 11:21 am
My In-laws ran for many years a Widowed Person Organization (app 15-20+ years?)/ They actually met there. Last year they decided to stop down. Before that - people would love to come to events they organized and.. but here were no takers to acutely do it. 6 moths after they step down and no activities, while they ignored members push for them to continue, 2 people step in and are running this now. They "gave" over 6 months notice to let other know they are stepping down. Only when they really stopped, someone decided to take over the responsibilities. .
Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG
"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"
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"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."

on 5/4/23 5:46 am
Good morning.
My fever blister from hell is still giving me troubles. It hurts so badly. I didn't have an outbreak in over 20 years so I most likely don't have antibodies to it, and it rages. Ugh. It feels like my back pain is nothing compared with the burning stinging lower lip. Drinking through straw is still a joy (not). Ugh. I sent my doc a message to get me some Rx meds for that stuff, but it didn't show up in Costco pharmacy yet. I take natural antiviral supplements, and use special otc creams but they just moisturize the area so it won't crack and bleed.
QOTD: I'm a sci-fi fanatic, so I've seen all the movies, and then some. Not cartoons. I like children cartoons.
I hate lines, so I never stood in line to buy a movie ticket. And I hate crowd's, so we often wait at least a week from a premiere to see a new movie. Any movie. One of the movie was running in 3D imax near us, and I was after back surgery, so I was not supposed to sit in place for over an hour. We got tickets to see the movie, and we got them in the last row, so I could stand up every 30 min or so to walk in place and wiggle my butt. (Movement was important to prevent scar tissue and spinal nerves adhering (again) to the bones.
Today I'm having a consultation on laser to close broken veins and capillaries on my face. I have a bring red splotches on my face, the veins right under the skin. Rosacea. I wonder what they can do with that and how much $$ it would set me off.
That area often gets seriously inflamed during Rosacea flair, and it's not only cosmetic issues but also preventing more damage. It's my left side - the driver window side, so probably also sun damage. Earlier this year I put UV coating on my car windows so that should help with future skin damage. As we age, melanoma can occur rather fast and spread. Sun in SC can be brutal.
Menu:
Liquids
Late lunch: probably frittata...easy and I can take small bites. (Can't open my mouth really wide).
D: roast beef- I didn't have that yesterday so plan it today.
S: strawberries, apple? Cheese.
Yesterday I did have much to eat overall and late evening decided to get some grain free chips. They were carbs and delicious, but the salt on them (not a lot) git into the federal blister and that burned, stinged...I had to apply ice to reduce the pain. Ugh. But that stopped me from having more. Keith was surprised I was eating "his" chips, until I showed him that they were chips I bought for me, and just forgot to tell him they are "special".
I know he would like them, but he has gazillion other chips at home I don't eat, so I know he won't touch them. He is very thoughtful when it comes to food I can actually eat and enjoy- he won't touch it.
Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG
"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"
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"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."

on 5/4/23 5:19 am
Hugs. Please keep us posted.
Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG
"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"
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"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."

on 5/3/23 11:52 am
This is the way.
Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG
"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"
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"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."

on 5/3/23 11:46 am
One day at a time. Food? who cares. You can eat anything and everything and calories don't count this week.
Just don't stomach ache.
Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG
"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"
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"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."

on 5/3/23 11:41 am
When the bed is very uncomfortable in a hotel - I sometimes asked for a second thick blanket, or a second comforter. I would remake the bed and place that under the the sheet. Or use the comforter under the sheets and just a sheet and a blanket as a cover.
Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG
"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"
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"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."

on 5/3/23 11:38 am
You look super cute all bundled up and actually skinny. Look at the shapely legs... all cute.
Last winter I used feet/toe warmers. I'm always hot from my knees up but my feet would start hurting when they got cold. I would wear a tank top or a t-shirt, and boots with thick socks and toe warmers...
Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG
"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"
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"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."

on 5/3/23 11:18 am, edited 5/3/23 4:18 am
They are funny stories about cigarettes'.. I always hated when people would try to get a cigarettes from me.
Specially in Poland, during depression time when you not only needed small coupons and money to buy food, but also - cigarettes. I always had them, because my mom worked for a cigarette company and she would get me "seconds" - bad "runs" of cigarettes the factory did not sell commercially. I was able to eliminate the worst "offenders" by asking them for some later on pretending I was out of mine. Those who shared with me - still had an "open credit" but some were so selfish, entitled, that would tell me that they had "last few and that they can't spare any". You could buy cigarettes on a "black market", often for 2-3 or more times than the "regular" price. There were also the very nice and EXPENSIVE "American cigarettes" that people could buy (black market, or specialty stores for foreigners ..and politicians) Fun times.
Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG
"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"
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"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."

on 5/3/23 11:07 am
When I was early post op - I always have protein shake handy. Now, 15 years post op- I still have meals I refuse t eat more than a bite. "I'm just not hungry" is often more than enough to shut down most people. "I really don't like sweets, thank you" for people that insist I absolutely "NEED TO TRY THIS ONE". No I don't. In worse case - I would smash food around, move it around on a plate as if I tried it and leave it.
I almost always have 1-2 easy for me to digest protein bars in my purse. My current to go bars are "epic meat bars". I even turn Keith into a meat stick eater. When we drive somewhere (more than an hour away) and I ask him if he wants a snack - he often says "No, I'm good" Then I pull out my latest find... i.e. Kalahari meat slices.. or biltong slices, or one of his favorite meat sticks, and share. He doesn't like Epic bars...lol. its the texture thing....I'm ok with that...
Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG
"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"
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"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."

on 5/3/23 5:26 am
OK. Can you show him how not to do it? You know he probably would have a house one day.
Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG
"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"
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"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."

