NSV.... Rappers, boot leg CDs and falling panties...

Jennchap
on 5/6/11 12:04 am - CA

Sorry you were offended. I have had those same issues living in a black area. I do know how you feel trust that. I stood in my friends living room at 15 and was told I could not go with his family to the movies cause I was white and therefore racist, so I get it. I may not be black but that is not the only reason people are targeted at stores. I grew up very poor and if you think they did not follow me around like I was some little thief you are wrong. In the end I did not mean to offend you and for that I am sorry

HW 275

SW 229

CW 136

Carmelita
on 5/6/11 2:44 am - Four Corners, NM

VSG on 09/10/08

In the end I did not mean to offend you and for that I am sorry

aww...cool Jenn! LIKE!! For the record..I don't believe ya got a racist bone in yer body either and this poster never implied you were racist, it is the descriptions depicted that make them insensitive.

Im married to a blond, blue eyed PINK man, together for 34 yrs now...can't call him white...cuz he ain't ..HE's PINK!! Im a darky Latina...I CAN CALL MYSELF THAT! but would be mighty pissed off readin a story by you describin a darky latino busted stealin yer hubcaps...kwim

Try bein invisible, MO -and- purple. We get real confused why we are treated so badly by society. Which is it ...cuz Im MO, or cuz Im purple. And for sure...you, like every one here knows damn well its only certain ethnic groups that are stereotyped thee most. Like KCChris once wrote..VSG don't fix ugly. Another stereotype...which is it.....we get rid of the obese one...but we're STILL sensitive to the other one....kwim....maybe not it appears ya only got the MO one to deal with LUCKY!

anyhoo......I liked yer story...reminded me of those Penthouse letters...lolol

chinasl45
on 5/6/11 3:26 am - Harrisburg, PA

VSG on 03/23/11

As I stated in my response, I didnt think you really meant to offend but I really needed to state how the context of the words didnt sit well. It's all good though...we all stated what we thought and that's the end....now back to our regular programing....

PSW 268 and Height is 5'10, SW was 241.6, GW is 170, CW is 160

jimbovsg
on 5/6/11 12:52 am

VSG on 09/01/09

On May 6, 2011 at 12:01 AM Pacific Time, Crystal W. wrote:

I've been a member for quite sometime, and this is the first post where after I read the post, it felt like my skin was crawling. My personal opinion is your comments were very hurtful and rude. I don't believe in emphasizing on someone race was necessary. I come across different people everyday, and I never say white boys/white kids, I just say kids.

darker toned friend???

For the people that thought your story was great, I think they too need to take a class on sensitivity.

Please keep the racial comments off of OH, this site is AWESOME and we would like to keep it this way.

Your feelings/experiences are valid......and I get that. You have had "life" experiences as a woman of "size"....and "of color" That many cannot relate to. So your perspective is much different than someone who did not live your life. Being offended...is your reaction......and I get that too. But to "call people out" as racist.....or needing "sensitivity" classes....is jumping to a BIG conclusion from info gathered on a couple of lines from an on line forum.
Ignorance....predudice.....judjement....and hatred......should NEVER be tolerated. I know Jen IRL.......these words would NEVER be used to describe her....by anyone who knows her. She is a very accepting ....caring person. Judging her from a couple of comments she posted is no different then people who look at MO people and think we are ALL stupid...and lazy.

JIMBO...  350lbs! lost!..... TRIPLE CENTURY CLUB!!  HELL ...YEAH!
MY  VSG......KICKS ASS!

I am   6' 2"

jimbovsg
on 5/5/11 5:04 pm

VSG on 09/01/09

Why didn't you march your tiny ass to VS and buy new ones? Another reason to extend the mall run! Cool NSVs

JIMBO...  350lbs! lost!..... TRIPLE CENTURY CLUB!!  HELL ...YEAH!
MY  VSG......KICKS ASS!

I am   6' 2"

frisco
on 5/5/11 6:04 pm, edited 5/5/11 6:09 pm

VSG on 09/30/09

Just let them fall to the ground and keep movin !!!!!

Everyone in the mall who sees them is gonna wonder who lost em !!!!

And who is crusin full on "Escobar"

frisco

SW 338lbs. GW 175lbs. Goal in 11 months. CW 148lbs. WL 190lbs.

      " To eat is a necessity, but to eat intelligently is an art "

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frisco
on 5/5/11 8:55 pm

VSG on 09/30/09

On my last few trips I got rid of most my baggy "Chuckers" my old blown out undies made there last trip! Just wear em and chunk em......feel sorry for the Tokyo garbage men that had to see those !!!!

Now all my **** is .....Brand new.....sized properly.....fresh.....tight.....50 new underwear....50 new pairs of socks....

For the first time ever.....I got all new stuff.....except for a few pairs of shoes.......And a few Jackets from my last skinny days 20 years ago......

frisco

SW 338lbs. GW 175lbs. Goal in 11 months. CW 148lbs. WL 190lbs.

      " To eat is a necessity, but to eat intelligently is an art "

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bekahler
on 5/5/11 10:51 pm - Parkville, MD

VSG on 10/14/10

I bought new panties when I was able to tuck them under my drooping boobs to keep them on..my dear husband gently explained that I wasnt exactly turning him on with that look...so I finally had to go get some new drawers!

I agree with Frisco..next time let them drop and keep walking...give people something to talk about!

"There are no Strangers Here, Only Unmet Friends" ~Helen Keller

melford273
on 5/5/11 11:55 pm - NJ

VSG on 03/16/11

Great story Jenn!! Keep up the great work! And go buy some damn undies would ya!

Nothing tastes as good as being thin will feel

HW 319; SW 295; CW 274.5

Nothing tastes as good as being thin will feel

Jennchap
on 5/6/11 12:00 am - CA

VSG on 01/27/11

WOWZA I shall never describe someone as black again…. I am clearly not versed how how offense it is to do so. I personally do not take offense when someones whiteness is described and therefore don't get it. I was personally raised in a very mixed area and always taught we were all the same so skin color means nothing to me whatsoever… As far as being sensitive… I cant promise you if I had posted this without skin color I would have got a million responses asking if the kids skin color. I don't mean to offend anyone but if you know me and my writing style you would get it and also. I can tell by some comments there are underlying issues with race here. Perhaps it is easy for me to write this… as I don't have any issues with that… To all have a good day… and know I don't mean to offend you but describing the way one appears physically is nothing more than a description. Perhaps I should rethink my personal trainer pet name… He seems to like Chocolate Chunk...

HW 275

SW 229

CW 136

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