Its been a while
At the risk of being on your "block list' I don't know if you were always "acting-out" like this, but from the outside looking in see a young wife & mother that is so giddy with her new found weight loss (and all the attention it attracts) going through an immanent melt down... Stay safe and think before you say or do something you regret and cannot apologize your way out of...
Just my $.02, Peace ... Craig
Just my $.02, Peace ... Craig

i am no different now than was at 250. From what I do to how talk. I see NSVs about being noticed by a man every ******g day... andI didn't apologize for my words. I don't feel they were even remotely wrong. I apologized for someone being offended and that it was so personal for them when really it shouldn't have been. I ain't mad atcha. I don't act any different now, ask Sublimate how I acted when we went out before surgery...and how I am now... The same. I'm not that young either, and Ive been at this mom thing for 13 years so its not all some new thing. I've got my head on straight thanks ;) I felt just as good about my body before I just like clothes more now, just cause i don't care what others think doesn't mean Im headed for disaster. I was thin almost all of my life so I don't know why losing weight would have anything to do with some crazy melt down.
Hey I'm not saying I know anything about you other than what you have posted. Victoria's Secret clothing, out drinking and partying till the bars close down, dancing and "tasting sexy young boys", racy photos from the WLS gathering that you organized, etc, etc, etc. You painted the picture, I'm just an observer along with dozens or hundreds of others on this board. You don't want me/us to get the wrong idea?.. then be cognizant of the picture that you are painting.
I liked your earlier posts back when they were about your daily struggles and triumphs with weight loss. I love the colorfull language and the way you tell your stories. You want to post all kinds of sexual inuendo type stuff, knock yourself out. It just paints a very different picture of what is important to you and what you want others to know about you. This is why I said "write for the reader". They reader only knows what you want them to know.
I'm over this crap now.... Craig
I liked your earlier posts back when they were about your daily struggles and triumphs with weight loss. I love the colorfull language and the way you tell your stories. You want to post all kinds of sexual inuendo type stuff, knock yourself out. It just paints a very different picture of what is important to you and what you want others to know about you. This is why I said "write for the reader". They reader only knows what you want them to know.
I'm over this crap now.... Craig

You know, Craig, what you see as a "young wife & mother going through a melt down" and "acting out", I see a smart and funny woman who has never let her weight keep her from enjoying life to the fullest and keeping her from telling it how she sees it, unlike a lot of people on this board I imagine.
If you ever get the chance to meet Jen in person like I have (well you probably won't now), you'd know that she is one of the most caring and empathetic people you'd ever meet. She's also a wonderful mom and someone who always goes above and beyond for her friends. My guess would be that the only reason she posted this was to let her friends know what she was up to because she helps so many people and two give her two cents about all the drama going on lately to normally the coolest board on OH. Is that really "acting out"??
If you ever get the chance to meet Jen in person like I have (well you probably won't now), you'd know that she is one of the most caring and empathetic people you'd ever meet. She's also a wonderful mom and someone who always goes above and beyond for her friends. My guess would be that the only reason she posted this was to let her friends know what she was up to because she helps so many people and two give her two cents about all the drama going on lately to normally the coolest board on OH. Is that really "acting out"??
Hey sweetie, glad that you're having fun with your sister, i sure had a blast with mine. When you get back can you fix my avatar? the old one is showing up again. Sigh!! oh well, i've been bad this week so not looking forward to getting on the scale in the am, i need to do more dancing, not sure about the drinking lol oh well , we all have our own little secret pleasures love you sleeve sista and like the badest (for some reason i always see bad ass when i see her posts, she's so sweet) I'm not too happy about you beating me to goal either, but i will still love you anyway :o) jeani