Now that YOU are THIN/NER would YOU DATE A MO person

Well Im still fat so I dont know if my opinion matters much lol but Ive always been attracted to bigger men.  I told my sister repeatedly that bigger men are sexier (I love teddy bears) and she FINALLY agrees with me.  My only concern would be eating habits and of course health issues.  Im married, my husband is 6'3 and about 280 so he could stand to lose some weight but I love him now and ill love him when im smaller.  I mean dont get me wrong, if I wasnt married I would love to have a man like Chris Hemsworth lol but I would never say I wouldnt date a big man just because I had lost weight, but like I said, Ive always liked bigger taller guys =)

I'm....6' 2" ....and....270  *wink*  .......just sayin'    ha ha !   

I'm so newly sleeved that I haven't lost much weight yet.  I'd have to say maybe though, I've always been attracted to bigger guys (probably cuz it makes me feel smaller).  But I'll be honest, it does depend how big and what he looks like, sorry, but I'm as shallow as anyone else. 

Also, I would be VERY worried about slipping into the same eating habits as a MO partner.  Seems like it would be too easy to grow fat together and lose everything I'm working for.

ive always had an attraction for bigger guys . but not MO.. ID BE  afraid that his unhealthy conditions would lead me down the wrong path . even tho, im heavy . i look at other overweight ppl as if they have given up also . i need a strong person on my side to keep me modivated . i dont need to go to an all you can eat buffet for a date . (if i went on one)...... i do feel for MO . ppl tho. they just cant help it . but ppl look at us like we can . anyway thats my story and im stickin to it .

I am happily married, so friends of course. But I have never really been attracted to mo guys.  tall and a lil chuncky is ok. but the love of my life is 5'7" and 165 so there ya go!

I have given this thought - and the answer is no. I have taken major steps to a healthier me - and major lifestyle changes. All of which allow me to do things I could not do before. I would surely like to be able to do these things WITH someone. I am also not interested in tempting myself by being with someone with bad health habits.

Wow! That's an interesting question.

I am married but the large majority of the men I've dated are of a strikingly similar aesthetic and personality (like they could all be mistaken for brothers). I rarely deviated from "the look" and dated those men when I was slender and when I was bigger.

What's making me pause before saying that I don't forsee that my tastes would change is that those guys were all "husky" (built like John Goodman when he did The Big Lebowski). You are usually husky because you used to be fit and no longer are, or you were never fit. I don't know that I would be as attractive to a husky guy if I'm very focused on food and fitness and I don't know that I'd be as attracted to someone who didn't care about those things.

That doesn't answer your question exactly but honestly I don't know that I know the answer.

I am sure however that my tastes won't change to ever be attracted to a very slender man or a hardcore fitness buff. Those guys are for some other lucky lady.

MO guys...hmmmmm.  My opinion is screwed up because I've been small all my life until I hit the 40's.  I do no like thin guys...never have - never will.  I like a strong man...and if he's carrying a few extra pounds that's all good.  I DO know what it feels like to be married to someone that has a problem with you if you're gaining weight...it is horrible.  The ego can be a fragile thing.   I was told I didn't  'have the look' and  'caused shame because I was gaining weight'.  Be careful how you speak to a man (or woman)...they already know the weight is there.  If you love them...just love them completely.  There are some mighty good hearts covered by some weight issues...
ALSO, maybe if you find 'the one'...you could be the inspiration for him!  Everyone will be different!    

My husband is 5'10 and 215 lbs..perfect size for what I like.  I am not attracted to really slim men, but I'm also not attracted to really large men.  This has always been my view, even when I was 354 lbs.  Luckily my husband looked past my size (260lbs) when we met 12 yrs ago. 

Even at my highest weight I wouldn't have dated someone super heavy, because I don't think I ever saw myself as heavy as I was..I was in major denial.

I have to agree with terimac10,we have all only wanted to be seen for who we were no the fat that showed on the outside,no the very same former heavy people pass judgment.I have been married to the same man for 35 years and wonder if when i got real heavy he said see you later,he didnt because he love "me". Sorta sad responses