Now that YOU are THIN/NER would YOU DATE A MO person

Newme209
on 5/20/11 6:36 am - NJ
Great question! For me, I date men I'm attracted to, which usually starts with the physical attraction. I've never been attracted to MO men. But I'm not physically attracted to men shorter than me, thin men, nor blonde men. Hmmm... Explains why Ive been single for so long!

I'm 5'6.5 
HW 253   SW 238 (-15 lbs preop)   CW 153
          
Final goal: 150-155 ...MET 153 (-100lbs) 11/24/11)

Mandi E.
on 5/20/11 6:40 am - Kissimmee, FL
Here's my outlook. I've dated men that were bigger than me and men that were smaller than me. For me personally, being a woman that use to be 420lbs to me it's physically better to date a fit man. My ideal type would be someone of Ryan Reynolds build and who looks like Ian Somerhalder.  Or my ultimate crush would be someone like Kellan Lutz. I like pretty boys with basic muscular builds. Now I've dated some like these fellows and I've dated some like Kevin James. When it all came down to it. You can find a great personality in any body but if there isn't sexual chemistry it won't work. So for me I would prefer a fit guy. Especially since I'm getting fit. I want someone with simliar views and interests and as I become less of a couch potato and more of a fitness junkie. Just my two cents. Call it shallow if you wish, but it's the truth.

Ryan Reynolds: 
ryanreynoldsworkouts.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/ryan-rey nolds-5.jpg

Ian Somerhalder:
www.elec-intro.com/EX/05-15-06/ian_somerhalder.jpg

Kellan Lutz: 
blogs.coventrytelegraph.net/thegeekfiles/Kellan%20Lutz2.jpg
xoxo~Mandi
"I don't mind living in a man's world, as long as I can be a woman in it!" ~Marilyn Monroe
 HW:422LBs Pre-op:394LBs SW:391.6LBs CW:303LBs GW:190LBs (5'10")
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Mary R.
on 5/20/11 6:44 am - OH
Ok Ian Somerhalder is HOT!
"Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time" 
"Get busy living, or get busy dying" 

  
 
      
Mandi E.
on 5/20/11 6:46 am - Kissimmee, FL
Agree! Ever since I was young I've always had a thing for men with black/dark brown hair and light blue eyes....my first bf was like that and in great shape and it's just my "TYPE"...but I have a huge thing for Kellan Lutz even though he's naturally blonde! LOL 
xoxo~Mandi
"I don't mind living in a man's world, as long as I can be a woman in it!" ~Marilyn Monroe
 HW:422LBs Pre-op:394LBs SW:391.6LBs CW:303LBs GW:190LBs (5'10")
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KathyA999
on 5/20/11 6:44 am
Fat or thin, I have always been attracted to taller men with dark hair, a little meat on their bones, hairy chests, and confidence.  Most of the men in the pic, no.  But the guy in the red thingy, whatever that spandex thing is called.  Yeah, as long as he promised never to wear it again, LOL!

Height 5' 7"   High Wt 268 / Consult Wt 246 / Surgery Wt 241 / Goal Wt 150 / Happy place 135-137 / Current Wt 143
Tracker starts at consult weight       
                               
In maintenance since December 2011.
 

Cusscusscutie
on 5/20/11 6:44 am - MA
Just a side note I know all the women in the picture. Many are even larger now!
    
Mandi E.
on 5/20/11 6:48 am - Kissimmee, FL
My question is why would they even take that picture to begin with?  
xoxo~Mandi
"I don't mind living in a man's world, as long as I can be a woman in it!" ~Marilyn Monroe
 HW:422LBs Pre-op:394LBs SW:391.6LBs CW:303LBs GW:190LBs (5'10")
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Cusscusscutie
on 5/20/11 6:59 am - MA
On May 20, 2011 at 1:48 PM Pacific Time, Mandi E. wrote:
My question is why would they even take that picture to begin with?  
They do a feeder/feedee photo website and one runs a plus size dance
    
Mandi E.
on 5/20/11 7:00 am - Kissimmee, FL
Ahhhh ok...well I use to run a BBW club in Tampa, FL but got out of it because the sceen was just to much drama for me. Thanks for filling me in!  
xoxo~Mandi
"I don't mind living in a man's world, as long as I can be a woman in it!" ~Marilyn Monroe
 HW:422LBs Pre-op:394LBs SW:391.6LBs CW:303LBs GW:190LBs (5'10")
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Paula622
on 5/20/11 6:45 am
In all honesty, no... but, that being said, I'd be even less likely to date a really skinny guy.  I like my men strong with a little extra "meat" on their bones.  Too much of a body builder and I'd feel the need to compete, too big and I'd probably join in the food fest and let myself go too.  Luckily for me, my husband fits the bill perfectly!  However, I have no problem being friends with overweight people.

~ Paula
219/185/127/121/119
HW/SW/Original Goal/CW/New Goal 
Post WLS baby, born 11/10/11 and 3/20/14
 
      

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