Heartbroken but here

carabarnes
on 8/31/11 7:00 am

I no longer have friends... thats about all I can say for that

Cara
current weight 123
I'm 28 and 5'5.

LaughingCow
on 8/31/11 7:06 am - VA

VSG on 02/01/12 with

I'm so sorry. :( What a betrayal by your husband and "friends". Completely unnecessary for things like this to happen! Best of luck in counselling.

Amy
VSG on 2/1/12 with Dr. Halmi

vacationlover
on 8/31/11 7:07 am

VSG on 04/29/11

:(

(hugs)

people can be such d-bags sometimes.

hang in there!!

CW: 130ish HW: 264 SW:254 Hgt: 5'2

Goals-Dr:159-MET Mine:140-MET!!! Final Goal: 135-MET!!!!!

W4:-22 W8:-11 W12:-10.5 W16:-12 W20:-11.5 W24:-9.5 W28:-8 W32:-7.5 W36:-8 W40:-7.5 W44:-5 W48: -4.5 1Yr/W52: -7

DragonGirl
on 8/31/11 7:14 am - MN

VSG on 01/10/11

{{{Cara}}}
You have friends right here. I'm so glad you reached out, and know we're here for you.
You do what you feel is the right thing to do for your life!
If you ever need a friend, here I am.
Heidi

Age 49 Height 5'5" HW/280 SW/250 CW/157

Behind every success is effort...Behind every effort is passion...Behind every passion is someone with the courage to try.

Birdie55
on 8/31/11 7:20 am

VSG on 08/30/10

Hugs, Cara.
I'm glad that you are in counseling so it will help you to decide whether you can work things out or not. And those were no friends, as you know. No friend would treat their friend that way.

Hugs to you and your boys.

Ht 5' 4 SW 181 GW 120 - 125 Age 61 CW 130

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HotMel2B
on 8/31/11 7:24 am - Frisco, TX

Love Hugs Cara!

Melanie

mslindsay1983
on 8/31/11 7:52 am - Canada

VSG on 06/15/11 with

My heart aches for you so much...thinking and praying for you Cara. Hang in there hun.

SassyItalian
on 8/31/11 7:59 am - Basseterre, St. Kitts and Nevis

VSG on 12/21/10

Hold your beautiful head high darling, you have nothing to be ashamed of. Nothing.

I know its not the same but we are all here for you, in your corner.

                      HW: 258lbs  SW: 240   CW: 140 I am 5 foot 7 and 30 years old
                 VSG 12/21/10  Plastics: Tummy tuck, breast lift, and augmentation 11/3/11
                                             Soon to be veterinarian!! xoxo

kiki07
on 8/31/11 8:09 am

VSG on 03/22/11

:Hugs:

H/W-286,S/W-286,C/W-199.8 G/W-175

injeneral
on 8/31/11 8:15 am

VSG on 08/15/11

I am so, so sorry you are going through this. I know we don't "know" eachother but I remember seeing your photos months ago and your story and photos were so inspiring to me and one of the reasons I chose VSG over RNY. I think you are amazing and I sincerely hope you and your husband can get through this tumultuous time and come out the other side even stronger.

What were your TWO BEST FRIENDS thinking???? That is so awful of them to betray you like that! I mean obviously your husband has responsiblity as well, but your two best friends???? I am so, so sorry.

HT: 5'3"      HW: 240     GW: 130     AGE: 30     PCOSer; diagnosed 2003
Month 1: -21.2 (218.8)   Month 2: -10 (208.8)   Month 3: -10.6 (198.2)   Month 4: -8.6 (189.6)
First goal (to be under 200): Nov. 11; 199.2
Second goal: weigh less than my husband (174):

I want to think again of dangerous and noble things. I want to be light and frolicsome. I want to be improbable, beautiful and afraid of nothing as though I had wings. — Mary Oliver

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