checking in - Clutter

Happy966
on 1/27/12 2:11 pm

I went to F2F meetings for 20+ years.  I just know that I'm not ready to discuss WLS with the group, and I can't go and not be honest about having had surgery.  One of my best RL friends is from OA - it was so hard to tell her about surgery!  I'll be sure to let you know if I go back.  I would love to start a meeting for WLS folks, but not sure I can find enough people interested around here.

Hugs to you!!


:) Happy

53 yrs old, 5'6" HW: 293 ConsW: 273 SW: 263 CW: 206

Ms Shell
on 1/27/12 2:47 am - Hawthorne, CA
Whenever you are ready to part with clothes I wear 14/16 bottoms and M/L shirts depending.

Yeah I've been in an ongoing process to declutter my house and so far so good =)

Ms Shell

"WLS is only for people who are ready to move past the "diet" mentality" ~Alison Brown
"WLS is not a Do-Over (repeat same mistakes = get a similar outcome.)  It is a Do-BETTER (make lifestyle changes you can continue forever.)" ~ Michele Vicara aka Eggface

DrHollywood
on 1/27/12 12:24 pm - Harbor City, CA
MS. Shell,

yes please...  although i gave 2 closets away, I still have more to give away.
Please this week may I give  some clothes to you.

PM me and i will make arrangements with you.  I need to do it this week because I cannot wait anymore. I feel suffocated.  Its going this week. Please dont miss it.  I would love for you to benefit from these things.


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                      ✿ L♦O♦V♦E ✿ & ✿ P♦E♦A♦C♦E ✿ღ ✿ & F♦R♦I♦E♦N♦D♦S ✿ ღ
                         "Keeping The Faith!"   "Slim by Summer!"
                                    HW: 250 - SW: 241  - CW: 154.7GW: 140  

     
 1 month: 22 pounds (2162 months: 12.2 pounds (203.8)  3 months: 10.6  (193.2)
 4 months: 9.7  lbs  (183.5)  5 Months:   6  pounds  (177.5 ) 
6 Months: 12 lbs ( 165.5)
 7 Months 7.1 lbs (158.4) 8 Months +1.6 pounds(159.8) 9 Months 2.7 pounds (157.1)
10 Months 8.1 lbs (149) 11 months +2 pounds ( 151) 1 YEAR!!!  2.6 pounds (148.4)


  
                                  Hit "One-derland April 9th, 2011   (199.7)

                                  "Half-Way Goal" April 25th, 2011 (194.8)

                                  "Happyland 80`s" May 14, 2011  (189.6)

                                   "Groovyland 70`s"  June 20th 2011  (179.9)

                                    " HippyDippyland 60's"  July 16th  (169.8)

                                       " CQQL-land 50`s"  August 25th ( 159.8)

                        "Normal BMI"   24.8  October 21st, 2011 (154.5) I am 5`6

                                 "AWESOME-land 40's" Dec 1st 2011  (149)

                              "Century Club 100 Pounds"  Dec 1st 2011  (149)

                                        ' ONE YEAR SURGIVERSARY!!!"

                                           Two Year Surgiversary!!!"


                                                                     

edelu
on 1/27/12 3:21 am - los angeles, CA
I had this moment a few months ago and i felt my stuff was consuming me and holding me back.  my closets were the main thing and my kitchen.  i made a list of friends who were the size i used to be and made care parcels of clothes for them and i had one friend who was moving into her own place after a break-up and i gave her my kitchen stuff.  it helped me feel i was of service, my stuff was helping others and it got it out of my life.  I loved doing it and don't know why it took me so long to find a way.  Good luck. Oh this week out of the blue the hunger monster is back.  I just hope it's a visit and he's on his way out because it makes me want to explode.  I feel powerless which is not a place i like to reside.  Yeah this too needs to pass.
DrHollywood
on 1/27/12 12:35 pm - Harbor City, CA
Hi edelu

Wow that is soooo great to hear your story how you gave your clothes in care parcels and get rid of your kitchen stuff.  and yes to hear you how it helped you feel that you were is service...
"YES YES YES!!  Ok Ok I can do this too!   Oh gosh thank you.  This so gives me hope and motivates me!  give me a little lingo of language and i totally hear you.  wow i thank you for your support.   I so relate to the monster....  STOP, pray, make outreach calls or out reach posts and get out of my head helps me.  its not easy...   but i want my monster to go away too.  nights are the hardest...   and my one moment at a time,  i am not going to give in right now...  maybe tomorrow but not right now....  :)   right?  I will put it off....  I also dislike feeling powerless.  I so can relate.  I can identify with the feeling, because i have been feeling it alot lately.

yes ....  we keep thinking, " This too shall pass!"   thanks for the reminder!
x0x0x0x0x0x0x0

                      ✿ L♦O♦V♦E ✿ & ✿ P♦E♦A♦C♦E ✿ღ ✿ & F♦R♦I♦E♦N♦D♦S ✿ ღ
                         "Keeping The Faith!"   "Slim by Summer!"
                                    HW: 250 - SW: 241  - CW: 154.7GW: 140  

     
 1 month: 22 pounds (2162 months: 12.2 pounds (203.8)  3 months: 10.6  (193.2)
 4 months: 9.7  lbs  (183.5)  5 Months:   6  pounds  (177.5 ) 
6 Months: 12 lbs ( 165.5)
 7 Months 7.1 lbs (158.4) 8 Months +1.6 pounds(159.8) 9 Months 2.7 pounds (157.1)
10 Months 8.1 lbs (149) 11 months +2 pounds ( 151) 1 YEAR!!!  2.6 pounds (148.4)


  
                                  Hit "One-derland April 9th, 2011   (199.7)

                                  "Half-Way Goal" April 25th, 2011 (194.8)

                                  "Happyland 80`s" May 14, 2011  (189.6)

                                   "Groovyland 70`s"  June 20th 2011  (179.9)

                                    " HippyDippyland 60's"  July 16th  (169.8)

                                       " CQQL-land 50`s"  August 25th ( 159.8)

                        "Normal BMI"   24.8  October 21st, 2011 (154.5) I am 5`6

                                 "AWESOME-land 40's" Dec 1st 2011  (149)

                              "Century Club 100 Pounds"  Dec 1st 2011  (149)

                                        ' ONE YEAR SURGIVERSARY!!!"

                                           Two Year Surgiversary!!!"


                                                                     

solace
on 1/27/12 11:35 am - NY
Hi Doc! Just wanted to let you know what an inspiration you have been. I love your posts and have even taken down your green smoothies recipes and hope to try kale chips next! I am ten weeks out and hope to be as successful as you! Now for the clutter.....my rule is that if you haven't used it or worn it in the last six months donate it, sell it, or throw it out! Decluttering is a great and I feel so much better when I purge. Of course, I have two little ones and the toys alone drive me nuts! Don't be so down! You're fabulous!
DrHollywood
on 1/27/12 12:41 pm - Harbor City, CA
awwww smiling about the toy comment and not laughing with the warm fuzzies.

First and foremost I want to say CONGRATULATIONS having 10 weeks
How are you doing? Feeling?  weight loss? How Exciting and I am totally excited for you!
Your life is going to change.

Hurrrray about green smoothies but remember make sure when you try it that your realease to all foods from your doc.  yes yum about the kale chips.. I relly love the,.  i do all sorts of stuff with them.

I like hearing if I dont use it, wear it, etc  donate it, sell it or throw it out.  Thanks for the reminder.
i always say this but never do anything about it...lol   but hearing you and others here say the word PURGE...  gosh I want to purge this stuff..... and big clothes.....   and these dishes I collect.
I like the word DECLUTTERING.....   I think I am ready and thank you for your support which gives me hope.

I am here if you want to chat about your WLS...  PM me and I sooOOooo want to hear about your journey.  CONGRATULATIONS AGAIN!!!!  x0x0x0x0x00x0x0x0

one more thing.  It touched my heart when you said your interest about green smoothies and kale chips.   anything you are interested in please let me know...x0x0x0x0x0x0

                      ✿ L♦O♦V♦E ✿ & ✿ P♦E♦A♦C♦E ✿ღ ✿ & F♦R♦I♦E♦N♦D♦S ✿ ღ
                         "Keeping The Faith!"   "Slim by Summer!"
                                    HW: 250 - SW: 241  - CW: 154.7GW: 140  

     
 1 month: 22 pounds (2162 months: 12.2 pounds (203.8)  3 months: 10.6  (193.2)
 4 months: 9.7  lbs  (183.5)  5 Months:   6  pounds  (177.5 ) 
6 Months: 12 lbs ( 165.5)
 7 Months 7.1 lbs (158.4) 8 Months +1.6 pounds(159.8) 9 Months 2.7 pounds (157.1)
10 Months 8.1 lbs (149) 11 months +2 pounds ( 151) 1 YEAR!!!  2.6 pounds (148.4)


  
                                  Hit "One-derland April 9th, 2011   (199.7)

                                  "Half-Way Goal" April 25th, 2011 (194.8)

                                  "Happyland 80`s" May 14, 2011  (189.6)

                                   "Groovyland 70`s"  June 20th 2011  (179.9)

                                    " HippyDippyland 60's"  July 16th  (169.8)

                                       " CQQL-land 50`s"  August 25th ( 159.8)

                        "Normal BMI"   24.8  October 21st, 2011 (154.5) I am 5`6

                                 "AWESOME-land 40's" Dec 1st 2011  (149)

                              "Century Club 100 Pounds"  Dec 1st 2011  (149)

                                        ' ONE YEAR SURGIVERSARY!!!"

                                           Two Year Surgiversary!!!"


                                                                     

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