Reduced to tears and unspeakable joy

Daisy_Rose
on 9/4/12 11:56 am
 For those that I keep in touch with know that my mom had a massive stroke in March followed by TIAs.  I"ve been helping to take care of her and my 85 year old dad.  They came over Monday  - Labor Day - for dinner.  Took all of us to get my mom into my house and settled, but it was sooooo nice to be together after her hard journey.

At one point, she looked and me and motioned to come over to her... I said, what's up mom... and she squeezed my arm and said in her little voice, you look so beautiful.  She asked how much more I wanted to lose and I told her.  She shook her head and said, do what you need to do, but you are beautiful.

As my mom is making her final journey, I will never forget hearing those words from her.

Thankful for the moment and the memory....and yes my sleeve.
                 
Bf516
on 9/4/12 12:13 pm
What a tearful but wonderful moment you will never forget.
Positive thoughts and prayers for you & your family.
Italian-Princess
on 9/4/12 12:18 pm - IL
VSG on 06/28/12
Hi Daisy-Rose

I can't believe over 20 people read this an no one responded.  Your Labor Day gave you a wonderful memory to keep forever.  You Mom sounds like a truly warm and loving parent.  It seems you already know that.........make sure you remember it.  Some of us have cold, unloving mothers who wouldn't know how to say something like your Mom did.

It seems a little frivolous to say this is an NSV, but it truly is in the very best sense of the phrase.  Your scale victories show on your ticker........these loving words from your Mom are engraved on your heart.

Enjoy every minute with your parents............

Ree
Daisy_Rose
on 9/4/12 12:22 pm
 Thank you.  My mom is a phenomenal person.  She broke the cycle of abuse, protected us kids; helped to raise over 56 foster kids as well as 4 biological kids.  She is a hero and for her to be able to say this to me - given her current stroke - was special.

Every day is a gift.  
                 
morgans
on 9/4/12 12:35 pm
VSG on 06/18/12
Your mom sounds like a remarkable woman. You have done a fantastic job and deserve ever bit of praise that comes your way.

I wish my father could have watched me on this journey. He passed away less than 5 months before my surgery. But he had always been supportive of me and knew that no matter what, I would still come out okay in the end. I was with him when he died and that may not be your journey, but I hope it is - in the best way possible.
       
chiefsgirl3
on 9/4/12 12:44 pm - IL
VSG on 06/05/12
 How beautiful and touching!!!
        
kcquilter
on 9/4/12 12:57 pm
Your post braught tears to my eyes, what a wonderful lady you have for a mom. It sounds to me you are like her! Best wishes to you & your family.

Bobbie
JoyeuxNoel
on 9/4/12 1:03 pm
My heart goes out to you...so very glad that your mother has been able to watch you become your very healthiest and most beautiful self.

I am sure it comforts her and brings her heart joy to know her baby is flourishing!

Thank you for sharing. It's too easy to take our loved ones for granted. I'm gonna give my mom a big ol'hug the minute she comes through the door tonight. 



"I never look back darling, it distracts from the now."      
LadydeeNJ
on 9/4/12 1:08 pm - NJ
VSG on 08/13/12
What a beautiful post! God bless your mom, i am in tears over here and i have to say enjoy every second with mom. i miss mines terribly! your mom reminds me of my mom ! what an honorable woman !
your lucky !
  Diana aka Ladydee NJ        
Hislady
on 9/4/12 1:24 pm - Vancouver, WA
Keep making special moments with your awesome mom, they will comfort you when she's gone. I can honestly say I have some wonderful memories of mine because all of us kids made sure we spent as much time as possible with both parents before they passed. It has given us wonderful memories to share!
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