19 month post and help needed!

i so know what you mean by the pants not fitting..it gets tricky as our bodies are just drooping everywhere...I noticed that i wear dresses more (i have massive legs and i'm still so insecure about it). I noticed lots of girls wear jegging/leggings since jeans and pants aren't complimenting our bum area either. 

Trial and error is probably our only way of finding things...I have came across someone who looked into pants that have extra padding. I hope you find something =D