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Yes. The other day I wondered if BFF's son would now be bald like his father or look like his brother. Big and small things.
Greetings all
Big sun today. I am sitting here air drying my hair. Plenty of chores to be done but first on the list is to go to the gym and walk. Somehow if it is not 1or 2 on the list it does not get done. So first it is. DH did the romeo lunch today and brought home burger and fries so dinner is decided. Gallery banking to be done but I think I will wait since I work there again tomorrow afternoon. I may have mentioned that our treasurer's son had an aneurism, stroke and fell and broke his leg badly so she is absent for awhile and we will need to cover for her.
We had frozen gluten free burritos last night. Pretty good. I did not realize they were gluten free when I bought them. I think the tortilla (or tortilla-like thing) was made from rice flour but hard to tell.
And thanks for sharing Elise' birthday with us Liz. A mixed day for you. My lost young one was my 17 year old nephew. His birthday was Christmas so that day is a mixed bag. Nice to see your son's friend went on to have a good life. Facebook is indeed great for that purpose. Amazing what comes up. However I just got a friend request from someone that I know is deceased. Clean up needed Facebook.
Anyway, enjoy the SIL birthday Liz.
DD you are so lucky to have Bff around as someone who goes way back in your history. Very grounding. Sounds like she has not always had an easy life so she is lucky to have you and vice versa.
Yoo Peps and CC? Where are you all?
Sending house vibes Paula.
Time to face the treadmill.
Diane S
Crazy weather! The Northeast is getting a bit of that this weekend. I am sitting on the deck but have to be under the umbrella because the sun is too hot. It is supposed to be 80 in Central Mass where we spend the day tomorrow.
Long-term grief is all about all the things they missed out on. Being a parent, attending their sibling's wedding, celebrating birthdays and holidays, and so on. So many times when you just think Elise should have been here or should have had that experience or I wonder what Elise would think.
Liz 5'3" HW: 219 SW: 185 GW: 125 LW: 113 Desired maintenance range: 120-125 CW: 119ish
Happy birthday to Elise, and to you, because a newborn Mom was born on this date too.
It's a funny thing this long term grief. BFFs oldest son left us when he was 13. He would be 39 now. We talk about him a lot, and laugh, but sometimes the grief sideswipes me, so i can't even imagine how it would be if it were my child. When our nephew , his younger brother got married a couple of years ago, I cried and cried thinking about how his brother wouldn't be there to be the best man. It caught me by surprise, because I thought the tears for him were all spent, but evidently not.
I did find some nice tops yesterday, and 2 pairs of crop pants in colors I already own. But why would I buy them? Because the current ones are looking shabby, but they go with so many things I already own. Happy to have nice replacements for them from Ann Taylor Loft at a very good price.
It was 90 yesterday! DH and I went to the beach counter service place at one of the big lskes in Minnesota. I am a cheap date, DH ordered a meal, and I had him add on beans and rice for me for $2.50. They have a lovely plaza where you can watch the sun set and the sailboats come in.
Today we are going to have a picnic at another beach. BFF has a rare day off, so we will meet her there. Could be 90 also today! I'm loving it. Next week will be more in line with average temps. That will be okay too.
116 - not much time to eat with the traveling yesterday
Today is the 21st missed birthday for Elise. She would have been 53. The picture on FB was on her 21st birthday.
One of DS's childhood friends had her first child (a daughter) at 18. She went on to complete nursing school, got married and has a handsome husband, 3 sons in addition, and a lovely home. She put a contemplative post on FB recently on her daughter's 16th birthday about how she never envisioned that her life would go so well in the future at the time her daughter was born. I have been so happy to see her progress through life. One of the benefits of FB.
Today we will have a chillier Justice walk (it is 46 out) though the temperature should warm to about 70 today. DH is golfing today and I will do some errands. Not sure what else or what dinner entails but it is a good thing to have a down day as we make the 2+ hour trip each way to Central Mass for SIL's birthday party tomorrow.
Have a fulfilling Friday!
Pretty close to the East coast! Be safe driving!
Liz 5'3" HW: 219 SW: 185 GW: 125 LW: 113 Desired maintenance range: 120-125 CW: 119ish
So nice that DSD likes to spend time with you. She will visit in Florida too even though it may be more spaced out.
Lots of people in Florida have dog strollers for the short walkers. I actually have one for Justice but never use it.
Liz 5'3" HW: 219 SW: 185 GW: 125 LW: 113 Desired maintenance range: 120-125 CW: 119ish
Yeah, houses always seem to need something done. The Cape house I sold last year had had everything redone on the exterior and the floors, furnace and AC done inside. Next up was contemplating replacement of 2 bathrooms and the kitchen cabinets. I just didn't have the energy for it.
I am sure that expensive parking for our little airport will be coming but for now it is free. And an Uber back and forth is pretty cheap as an alternative. DS is 10 minutes from his airport and just uses Uber.
Liz 5'3" HW: 219 SW: 185 GW: 125 LW: 113 Desired maintenance range: 120-125 CW: 119ish
I was never this close to the airport. The closest was Boston, technically an hour if there was no traffic but there was ALWAYS traffic so you had to plan for 90 minutes or more. The other appeal to our super close Florida airport is that it is tiny - only one check-in line, one security line, one waiting area, and one gate. Also only one airline right now (Breeze) but JetBlue and American are trying to add flights. I don't know how that is going to wor****il they expand the airport.
I hope you found some cute tops! I sometimes have good luck at TJ Maxx, but recently I have found nice ones at White House Black Market.
Liz 5'3" HW: 219 SW: 185 GW: 125 LW: 113 Desired maintenance range: 120-125 CW: 119ish