Hi Erica, I'm sad to hear that you have lost a loved one. You are and will be in my prayers. I pray that God gives you and your family strength in your season of sorrow. And as far as what the doctor has told you about not losing anymore wt. well that's not up to him because the word of God says that we can do all things through christ that strengthens me. You have lost a lot of wt within a years time, and I believe you can lose more as long as you are true to yourself in following the guidelines for WLS. Going back to the basics will definatly help!! Don't be discouraged make sure you get some walking in, drink your water, eat your protein and take your vitamins.