Becca K. 23 years, 8 months ago

" I know, O LORD of LOVE and LIGHT, about the need. Touch my heart anew with your DIVINE LOVE and LIGHT that I too may receive and give, sending your healing touch to others in need. I invoke your DIVINE LOVE and LIGHT towards Excellent Health, Loving Relationships, Right Livelihood and Right Alignment with my and soul's purpose. I wish to align myself with ALL THAT IS, my own I AM PRESENCE. I now open myself to receive your gifts and with your DIVINE GUIDANCE I will give to others and give thanks for the SPIRITUAL ABUNDANCE in my Life." SO BE IT, IT IS SO.

Andrea E. 23 years, 8 months ago

hello its me again. it is friday july 26th and I am still waiting for insurance approval (biting my nails) I agree with every one when they say this is the hardest part the waiting. I went with my best friend on Monday the 22 she had hers open with Dr Vitello at UIC hospital in Chicago, IL. She was in alot of pain the first few days she came out of surgery and her first words to me were don't do this. I think every one the first few days goes thru the why did I put my self thru this hell? the answer is because we are sick of being fat I kindly explained to her we knew it was going to be like this lynn but it will get better it just has to be one day at a time on step at a time. it has in no way discourged me from the surgery if a few days of hell is what it takes to over come a life time of being healthy then by golly sign me up. whoop lol I am already signed up august 19th whoo hoo. you want to know a funny thing I have purchased belly button rings for when my stomache is flat hey I am still young 30 is not old and buried. till next time .....(huggs)

MommaAngel 23 years, 8 months ago

HI Andrea I just want you tio know that I am praying that you will have a quick and smooth recovery to the losing side. LORD BLESS

Betsy Yellon 23 years, 10 months ago

Hi Andrea, If I was you, I would march right over to your human resources representative and let them know that you are being harrassed. This is unacceptable behaviour and it sounds like discrimination (tell them that, they do not want a discrimination lawsuit!). Don't let someone like that get the best of you. You need to do what you need to do, what is best for you. I guess, in hindsight, your mistake, although done with good intentions, was to tell her what you were having done. We, as employee's do not have to reveal any details regarding time off, period, end of story. This is personal, private information. If you have the time, you should be able to take it, for ANY reason. Keep this in mind in the future (if you have follow up visits etc). I can't believe that this person would treat you this way. Like I said, I would take this to HR immediately, she should be severly repremanded for her treatment towards you as well as you protecting yourself. I was in the same boat not long ago and learned my rights as an employee. Another thing. Document every conversation that you have with this person. Be specific, times, dates and contents of your conversation. If something does happen to your job, you will have the documentation and have some kind of recourse and can show specific conversations, which I am sure that she won't have. Unfortunately, you have to really watch out for yourself, no-one else will. Please let us all know how you're doing. Good luck and may God Bless you with an uneventful surgery and recovery!
About Me
Montgomery, IL
Location
43.8
BMI
RNY
Surgery
10/23/2002
Surgery Date
Oct 12, 2000
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