Tammy - I know it's easier said than done, especially with small children involved. But kick that man to the curb! You deserve so much better, every one of us does...weight loss surgery or not. I can relate to your situation somewhat, as my ex-husband was verbally abusive. We are still "friends" but I do worry about how he'll be acting when I am post-op. Please e-mail me and we can talk. Take care of YOU first, then the kids, because the kids need you to be strong for them and you need to be strong for yourself. Take care and Good Luck - Anna email:
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