Hi Elizabeth; I just wanted to wish you a safe and uneventful surgery and a speedy recovery. Try to stay positive and upbeat before your surgery. I know it's hard because like you, I too had no friendly support. I have lost a cousin and a few friends over this but I knew it was their problem, not mine. I did this for me, to get healthy and live longer. If they are truly friends, they will "come around" and be there for you. This is the time to take care of yourself and you'll get through this just fine. It's exciting that you have such a wonderful, new experience opening up for you a 3 days. A whole new life is on it's way. I will keep you in my prayers and I am sending a {{{hug}}}to you. Take care, God Bless, cheryl-Lap RNY 3/27/03- 88#