excited confused and pulled in so many directions

Aug 04, 2011

So I have this friend who is smaller than me and got a great body.I have always been the chunk in the group. She knows several people who have had bariatric surgery and for years she has said oh.. have you thought about it...why not check it out etc. Well I finally came to check it out and make the decision in my life and now shes changed her tune. I thought if anyone would be completely supportive it would have been her. Shes questioning me daily... well u can do it with exercise and eating right. You dont need surgery...im so confused and not sure how to handle her now.  I just dont think someone who hasnt been overweight their entire life can understand the hope i finally have that there is a  tool out there that can really help me. In our educational classes, they discussed how wls can affect friendships and relationships. Even my husband has been weird with this process. All the people i thought would be my support in this are totally flaking...wtf!

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