DARLEEN, IT TOOK ME TWO YEARS TO DECIDE TO GO THROUGH WITH SURGERY. MY SURGERY IS TOMORROW AND I AM HAPPY AND I KNOW I MADE THE RIGHT DECISION. I HAD PEOPLE TELL ME GOOD THINGS AND I HAD MANY PEOPLE CLOSE TO ME TRY TO TALK ME OUT OF IT, BUT THE DECISION NEEDS TO BE YOURS. IF YOU HAVE ANY QUESTIONS PLEASE EMAIL ME, I HAVE SEVERAL BOOKS THAT HELPED ME TO COME TO MY FINAL DECISION, I WOULD BE MORE THAN HAPPY TO LEND THEM TO YOU. MY THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU, KELLY