I was born into a wonderful supportive family. I tell everyone I am the runt (I'm the second child) because, after puberty, I became the shortest, fattest, and loudest member of the family. My brothers and sisters, and my mom have been rail-thin all of their lives. Middle life has crept a few extra pounds around their bellies, but I hold the title of being the biggest. My dad has battled his weight by staying physically active - otherwise he would be overweight too.

When I met my husband, I was getting fit. I was at 190, and exercising daily. After our first date, I dropped everything and we went on to gain 10 pounds a year for the next 3 years. I thought I was happy because he liked me big - loved me big. How lucky I was to find a handsome talented man who liked fat girls? He wasn't a slouch though - he's a big boy too. By the time we were married, I was at 220 and gaining, and he was at 240.

After the birth of our son, I weighed close to 280 - but I eventually got it down to around 265, and stayed there for years. In the last 3 years I gained 20 pounds, putting me at 285. This last year I was diagnosed with Obstructive Sleep Apnea, and Hypothyroidism, and I have some sort of hormonal problems too. It became clear to me that I wasn't going to beat the odds - I could die before I was 50 if I didn't take control of this problem.

This last year, I finally found a company who recognized my potential, and am doing the kind of work I can get behind and put my unique abilities to good use. My primary passion is really communication - helping others see, know and understand. By having this surgery, I am giving myself more energy and time to be an effective part of my company, my community, my church, and my family.  

So, here I am - beginning the journey... I hope your journey brings you strength, peace, energy, and LIFE.

 

About Me
McAllen, TX
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Dec 31, 2006
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