Krista L.
Well, I'm officially a statistic....
Nov 23, 2009
As of Saturday, I'm officially a statistic for WLS. I gave my husband the boot on Saturday. I don't think it was a matter of me changing and deciding he was not worthy or anything. And at one point he did treat me wonderfully. At one point he was kind and loving and appreciative of everything I did for him and the family. But that all changed. I had surgery 3+ years ago and over the last year to 18 months I noticed changes. The husband was "checked out" of the marriage for longer and longer periods of time. He was and still is living his life on cruise control. Some people told me that they saw this coming (at lot actually) and some have even said they saw it coming since I had surgery... Some how I don't really think surgery made the difference here. But what ever the reason, a little over 3 years after my DS and you can put another tick mark in the divorced after surgery column. Now I just have to wait out the year that this crappy state makes me wait before I can file.... ughhh... I just want it done and over with so that all parties involved can move on. I'll still have to see him due to our kiddo together, but I'd feel better if he had nothing like technically being married to hang over my head... oh well.... gotta just deal.
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About Me
Charlotte, NC
Location
43.9
BMI
Surgery
09/11/2006
Surgery Date
Jan 16, 2003
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