I have been heavy all my life.  I come from a large family on my father's side.  We all had the joke that we weren't fat we were just big boned.  That seemed to work until my doc ran a DEXA on me and said I have tiny bones.  That no longer flew for me.  I was at the best shape of my life in my late teens.  I was 125 lbs and had energy I didn't know what to do with.  I made one too many bad decisions and turned my  health into a disaster.  By the time I hit 21 I weighed 281 lbs.  Keep in mind I am only 5'3".  I had a hard time breathing, fitting into any decent clothes, and trying to work 40 hrs a week was pure hell.  I went on Medifast and had a tragedy take place in my life.  I dropped 85 lbs in just 4 months.  I became very ill during that weight loss and had to move back home to my family to recover.  Just as quickly as I lost the weight I put it back on.  I did the yo-yo for 4 years when I stablized at 255.  When I was married is '98 I was in fair health at 255 lbs.  I was diagnosed with Cervical Cancer and again made too many bad decisions in my life.  I floundered around in life never going below 255 lbs until I had my first child in '03.  I dropped to 236 after she was born.  Then I found out 5 months later I was having another child.  I thought for sure I would be fat for the remainder of my days.  My son was born in '05 and I dropped the weight again but had so much pain and complications something was wrong.  I was diagnosed with Lupus, Sjogren's Syndrome, and Arthritis.  The treatment for this was Prednisone.  In my opinion that is a medicine straight from the pit of hell.  In the 4 months I was on a high dose of it I shot up to 276 lbs and was more unhealthy than before I went on it.  I decided to go off it against medical advice.  I am glad I did because they ran more tests and found that I only had Sjogren's and minor Arthritis.  I didn't need to be on Prednisone to begin with.  So, now that I can't get the weight off I am back to square one.  I went through South Beach, Starvation, Weight Watchers, and tried methods from my past.  Nothing worked.  I wouldn't lose even 1 lb with all my efforts.  That's when I sought out the Lap Band.  I knew it was a viable solution in my case.  It wouldn't cure what was going on with me but it sure would aid me.  The day I went to orientation I weighed 276 (October 24, 2006).  I was dealing with Sjogren's Sydrome, Arthritis, Glaucoma (advanced due to Prednisone), and pre-surgery stage one liver failure.  The day of my surgery I weighed 256.  I am now almost a month post op and weigh 238.  I have a clean bill of health on my liver, my hypertension is gone, and I don't have the pain from arthritis nearly as bad. 

I found this harder to deal with since I was in the medical field.  I found myself in a strange position.  I was considering the Lap Band, I passed a national exam which gave me a promotion at work which led to being elected President Elect of my local coding chapter.  I had so much going on I didn't think I could take anymore.  On top of that we were in the process of selling and building a new home.  Stress was running my life. 
My work was very supportive when I told them what I was going to do.  My fellow Coders were excited to read the report.  In January '07 we moved into our newly built home, I stepped fully
into my new job at work, I held my first meeting as President Elect, and I had surgery.  The theme for my life this year is "Starting Life Over".  
My daughter tells everyone she can that her mommy went to the hospital and the doctor opened up her skin and put a rubber band on her tummy.  If you ask her why the doctor did that she will say "so my mommy can take me down the slide.  Right now she doesn't fit."  She is only 3 yrs old.  My children were a huge reason I chose this surgery.  I was going down hill fast and needed to do something drastic but safe.  This was the best thing I have ever done in my life.

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