stephanie Y. 22 years, 6 months ago

Sally, I just read about your fears on the forum and I felt compelled to write to you. Although I am not even close to actually getting the surgery, I understand your fear. It is extrememly scary to say the least, and it doesn't help that it is elective. Wouldn't it be wonderful if a doctor just called an ambulance, called a hospital and said "This is NOT elective...you HAVE to do this, or you will die!!". It would take a lot of the anxiety away, since we would not have the time to anguish about our decision. Unfortunately, it isn't so. Like you, I am petrified and go from wanting it ABSOLUTELY to absolutely NOT wanting it. I truly think those feelings are normal. In my case, I have incredible faith in God, and his power to let me know what is right for me. Sally, I know you too are a woman of faith, and I would suggest you pray about this with all sincerity and with an open heart. Then listen to that little voice inside of you. If this is the right thing to do, you will feel at peace. If you don't get that peaceful feeling just yet, there is nothing wrong with postponing the surgery. NO-ONE here is going to be disappointed in you. We all understand!! This is an incredible decision, and you have every right to wait until you know it is right. I truly wish you well, Sally. Please know that my toughts and prayers are with you.

Addie R. 22 years, 6 months ago

Sally, I feel as if I know you and wish you the very best with your surgery. As a fellow nurse, I understand your fears and concerns, but also I hope you realize that your knowledge and experience will make it easier than with one who doesn't know the "system". Know that many prayers and wll wishes are going out to you in the next two days. Be sure to have Lois post on AMOS often and we look forward to hearing from you as soon as you can, Addie

Carol P. 22 years, 6 months ago

May God bless you as you have blessed so many others!! We love you Sally! Healing Hugs!!! Carol Percel

roryleigh 22 years, 6 months ago

Wow, 2 more days!! Good luck to you for a smooth surgery and quick recovery. Best wishes for a healthier life!

Bernadette R. 22 years, 6 months ago

Hi sally great big cyber hug and kiss((((((XXXXXXXXX))))))) for you - God bless you on your surgery - i will be praying for you. kind regards

Alice W. 22 years, 6 months ago

Sally Hello~~~sending you Lots of (((((HUGS)))))-- please remember that you are not alone, you have all of the AMOS FAMILY right here if you need anything!! You are truly an inspiration and I will be sending up special prayers for you. Wishing you all the very best on your surgery and YES dreams do come true.

Margaret M. 22 years, 6 months ago

Sally, Congratulations on your upcoming surgery. I have followed your journey from the beginning. I have to say that you are an inspiration to me. I am so glad that you are well on your way with this third surgery date. Remember my post.."the third time is a charm." I will be praying for you. May God continue to bless you with an uneventful surgery, speedy recovery, and a fantastic weight loss. See you on the "losing side." margaret@goal

Charisse F. 22 years, 6 months ago

Your personal choir of angels, your AMOS sibs are sending godzillion prayers and incredible amounts of love to you now and always. God bless, protect and keep your journey heathy. We are the wind beneath your wings. Much love and admiration for your courage.

claydeb 22 years, 6 months ago

WOW SALLY YOU ARE ALMOST THERE. I PRAY THINGS GO WELL FOR YOU WITH A SAFE SURGERY AND SPEEDY RECOVERY. THEY SAID I WOULD HAVE MINE IN MARCH STILL I DO NOT HAVE A DATE. I WAS POST POND FROM OCT. SO I REALLY DO UNDERSTAND THE LONG WAIT. AND WE DESERVE THE BEST. GOD BLESS YOU ON YOUR JOURNEY WHO SAID IT WOULD BE EASY. DEB

Vicki R. 22 years, 6 months ago

Sally, You sure are a EXCEPTIONALLY SPECIAL PERSON that has more people that love you then you could ever imagine! Life is rough and sometimes all we get to experience are the take take take part of life and not the we recieve part of life...You are never alone and will always have your Amos Family to comfort you when in your time of need! Please always remember that!!! We all are here for you ALWAYS! Luv Ya!
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