Where Have You Been?

Jun 22, 2009

Weight 186

Out living life of course!!  Adjusting to single life seems to be suiting me, although being alone took a bit to get used to.

Tim remains amicable and generous.  As a matter of fact, he and I are often seen together which confuses people immensely.  It's hard to tell old friends we encounter that we are in fact getting divorced but still friends.  Apparently, this is quite uncommon. The most beautiful part is that we get to go to separate homes at the end of the day.

The divorce is moving slowly, at my discretion.  We decided that neither of us is in a great hurry to be officially divorced.  This benefits me in that I get to keep health insurance benefits until all is said and done.

We are sharing custody of the girls who seem to be adjusting well as far as I can tell.

I started dating a great guy almost 6 months ago.  He decided to have weight loss surgery, not because of me, but because he wanted to change his life.  When he came to me, I told him he needed to do his own research and make that decision on his own.  So, last week he became a member of the weight loss surgery group.

Our relationship seemed to get serious despite my warnings.  I was afraid I was going to break his heart so I took things one day at a time.  We both fell head over heals for each other and honestly, I never dreamed I would let my feelings get so intense.  Over the months, things started to feel like we were married.  We decided because we live an hour apart, that we should slow things down.  Neither of us wants to be married again, but would rather like to enjoy each other's company.  We are now happily dating and remain hopeful that two people can be a little more than "great friends".

Another new love has crept into my life as well.  I am now bicycling 125 miles a week.  I went out to get in my car to walk one day and saw the bike sitting there.  I thought, "What the heck?" and threw it in the car only to ride 21 miles on my first  trip.  Our city has an amazing river trail that is one of the most beautiful in the U.S.  I don't have to worry about getting hit on the road by a car.

The end of the River Trail.

My weight is still fluctuating about 5 pounds up and down.  I decided to accept my accomplishements and continue being as active as possible.  My new life is a work in progress but I wouldn't change a minute of my past.  It's made me who I am today.


(I'm working here, lol.  I'm reading Sign Builder's Illustrated).

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