Fixing the REAL problem...
Apr 21, 2014
Wow, I cant believe its been so long since I've updated anything on here. So much has happened over these past couple of years (its embarrassing to say years). But the major and most important thing that happened was that I realized that in order to be totally successful with wls you must determine the very root of what led you to need wls in the first place. And that, is the one thing I did not handle prior to having wls. Why do I eat that way I do? Why is food so comforting to me? How am I, or will I be able to change after wls? These are the questions I wish I had asked myself and dealt with when I first decided to have surgery. Those are the questions that I am now forced to evaluate. Don't get me wrong, I am so thankful that I had surgery I just truly wish I would've fully prepared myself to take full advantage of this amazing tool. With that said, here I am, 2 years post op with a 25lb regain, and a desire to finally get completely on track.
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Getting Back On Track!!!
Aug 06, 2012
This has been a very up and down journery for me, but like I said its worth it and I wouldnt change it for the world. Recently I experienced some real downs (a gain, pain, and had my gallbladder removed). Emotionally I've been thru the ringers to the point that I even decided to seek professional help. Depression is NO JOKE, no matter how minor you think it may be, or if you're afraid of what others may think SCREW EM. Do what you've got to do to keep yourself moving forward. Now to my gain, ugh, yes I gained and not just one pound either. I totally fell off track for a while and was eating all the wrong things and truly pushing myself to my limits. It was Sabotage at its highest. But thankfully, I slapped myself, woke myself back up and found my focus again. I reconnected with my surgeon again after quite some time, thankfully, I let it all out I told him exactly how I was feeling how upset I was and we hashed it out right in the nick of time because a week later I had the WORST gallbladder attack and it had to be removed. But like I tell anyone who follows me and corresponds with me, I'm human, I fall, but I'm getting back up.
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One Year!!!!
Jun 02, 2012
Although this has been a year of many ups and downs I wouldnt trade it for anything. The decision to have surgery was perhaps the best decision I ever made. Like I said it hasnt been easy but the triumph is more than worth the trials. I've learned more about myself within this year than i think I ever did. I havent made it to the finish line just yet, in fact this is still just the beginning. But IM READY to take charge of this journey. A year ago I was 350lbs, my body was not mine and was slowly falling apart. Today I am 218lbs, working out more than I ever did in my life, and feeling like a completely different brand new person. My life is just beginning...
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Un(fricking)believable !!!
Dec 16, 2011
I'm having a moment of true disbelief. This journey has not been an easy one for me but I thank God he made it possible. Even though it's been rough I'd do it all over again. Today my mother and I were out shopping and she bought me the cutest outfit in a size 18/20, mind you I haven't been that size since I was a freshman in high school. And at first I though ok well I'll be able to wear it one day especially since I myself can't see a change in my physical appearance. But to my absolute surprise it fit and I had a little room. I could not believe it it almost brought tears to my eyes. I can't believe that 6 and a half months out I'm 103lbs down and 10 dress sizes down. Omg. Now this is a true whoa moment.
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6 weeks out..brief update
Jul 18, 2011
Well thankfully I am feeling much better. I'm able to get some foods down now. I'm getting in more protein and water and of course my vitamins. I'm almost 30lbs down from my surgery date. I'm still dealing with my emotions a little and trying to find a balance. My toughest challenge right now is figuring out what to eat. But I've been reading thru a lot of post and youtube, trying to communicate with my dr. So its a day by day thing for me. I've started a youtube channel (its my own sort of therapy). But all in all I'm a lot better. I'll be truly glad when I can break that dang 300 mark but I know it'll come. Until later. Love yall
visit my channel to see a little more into my life...
http://www.youtube.com/user/Tat2dprTgrl
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Almost 3 weeks out...
Jun 16, 2011
Well I made it thru, I'm 3 weeks out and trying not to get on the scale because it's totally mind wrecking, But physically I'm feeling much better. Still a tad fatigued but even thats getting better. I'm still struggling with getting all the liquids and proteins in but each I do a little better. I've started walking again and I'm starting the gym on Monday. Now my emotional state is still on the rocky side, I have a total fear of eating and of waking up to realize that the surgery didnt work for me. But either way I wont give up.
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5 days until surgery....
May 26, 2011
It's kind of hard to believe that I'm finally to this point, surgery is on tuesday and I have to admit I'm a bit nervous. Not so much of the surgery but of how things may go afterwards. I want so much to be successful and to have a good outcome. I'm just going to keep praying and believing that everything will work out.
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My 1st post...
May 07, 2011
Wow, I can't believe how fast all of this i happening or that I'm even doing this at all. I've spent so many years on that "I'm fat and proud" Child please, when you sit on the toilet and your feet fall asleep it's time to do something. Well today 5-7-11 I'm three days away from one of the hardest parts of my journey THE DREADED OPTIFAST DIET. I have to do the optifast diet for 3 weeks. Oh lord please give me the strenght I'm going to need to make it thru this. I'm super nervous yet super excited.
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