Congratulations, Your big day is next and then you will be on the losing side. Try to hang in there and stay focused and take one day at a time. Remember your AMOS friends are always here for support. 24-7. I read todays post and I agree with you. Do or die,LOL. that's how I felt at the time. I had come to the end of my rope concerning my weight. and I didn't care how or what I needed to do. WLS answered my prayers, You hang in there girlie and your friend shouldn't had laid that on you like that. maybe she will come around when she learn more on the subject. I have 2 nurses in my family also and thought that wls was a instant killer with to many high risk. until I stood my ground and educated them plus they did their own research also, One is now talking about having it also. so again hang in there and try to focus and think POSITIVE at all times~*~Hugs~*~