Apr 24, 2009ok, so here is the deal with me, i turn 31 next week i have a two beautiful daughters, a 3yr old and a 10 month old. It all started last Spring when my oldest sister had informed Alicia and I that she was having RNY. This then lit a fire under Alicia's ass and she and I decided we were gonna have the surgury. My wife had RNY on Feb 16, and today hit the 50lb mark. Due to my schooling i can't miss any time and have to delay my RNY untill late Oct 09. I have been back and forth between RNY and GB and i have decided that RNY is what's best for me. If you read my wife's profile and her blog you will read about my lack of support for her surgury. i support my wife in this i think i just come off as unsupportive becase of jealousy. After talking to my wife and making the appropriate appointments i'm gonna get the ball rolling so i to can get healthy again!