Well i think there is two types of flirty... there is a flirty that is meant to be in a sexual way or at least to show interest.. then there are personalities that are just feisty and fun and tease people a lot. And i don't think the later is a problem. You just have to be wary of if the flirtations you feel ever spark an interest on the other persons part. If they know that is just your personality and you have always been like that but it is just different now that you are thinner... it may be a dynamic we are not used to dealing with with out thin bodies. I know i still have fat mentality on lots of stuff. I was always very flirty cause i was fat and i know people didn't take it seriously. And i could get away with stuff that way. But i have noticed now that i am the same exact way... but because i am thinner the wives or girlfriends take it much differently than before. I have told my husband about a couple of people that have hit on me just cause i am so shocked by it. He just never believes me. That makes me feel sad... i think i am worthy of being hit on> LOL Anyway.. jus****ch it. Be careful you don't talk about it so much to your husband that he freaks out and thinks you re trying to give him unwritten ultimatums with the other guys. I think it is nice for him to see others find you attractive so he doesn't get too complacent. But yet he needs to feel secure in your relationship as well. Just makes sure it always stays as secure as it is now. We just have to be aware of how much of the flirtting is happening because we are in need of that self esteem boost. After many years of people not paying attention it is nice to have poeple notice it. We just have to be careful to be normal with it.

IS it a full mooon or something... my husband is being impossible to00000! lisa

Wendy, Wow, that is a toughie. My initial response is no you are playing with fire. But I need to think on it a while. I am going to go to the drive in with my hubby tonight. Who I am a little mad at so it should be interesting. But I will think on this subject while I am ignoring himLOL and get back to you later. Have a great friday night. Mine should be interesting. Lynn

Leslie, That is awesome. You should be very proud of yourself. This surgery is amazing. Or should I say that this surgery gives us the power to be amazing. Congratulations and thanks for sending the whooshie fairy our way. I know I need it. Lynn

That is downright fantastic! Congratulations Leslie!!!! This surgery is truly amazing, isn't it?!?! It has changed all our lives! Good luck on the lottery!! Have a great weekend! Your wls friend Sandy P