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Norma_ENVY
on 7/18/05 5:56 am - Montebello, CA
Topic: RE: I Have Something Very Important To Say...A Bit Long
Denise, Thank you so very much for sharing your story. I too agree you need to post your story on the main board and put it out there as much as possible. Your strength and experience is one that needs to be known by all, preops, postops, all - period. I admire and commend your braveness and just overall strength with this whole situation. You're right, you may not be the "norm", but you've been able to navigate yourself through these challenges and be the strong person that you are. Strong enough to even see the positives. I don't know if i'd be as strong, but then again, we all surprise ourselves when under adversity A part of me definitely feels for you and all your rough experiences since getting WLS. Another part of me is thankful that my wls experience has been, overall, very normal. And, another part of me feels guilty that I may take my own experience for granted and not even realize that complications do happen. We all get the "complications" breeze-over when initially considering WLS, and even know that the possibility of death is there, but don't really think it HITS us that it does happen. Again, thank you so much for telling your story and PLEASE continue to share your experiences with me. Know that we are here to rejoice in your highs and give our prayers and kind words through the hard times. You've allowed me to internalize my own experience, be thankful for it, not take it for granted and be in awe of your strength. Much love, Norma G.
Norma_ENVY
on 7/18/05 5:34 am - Montebello, CA
Topic: RE: WOW Moments!
Awwwww, congratulations Marianne!!!! I'm so happy for you, and totally know what you mean. I had planned to go buy some jeans at NY&Co, since they were having a special this weekend but put it off. I mainly wanted to go because i wanted to know/see what size I'd be able to fit into. NY&Co was always a favorite of mine, but usually ended up getting a top or their largest sized pants. Thing was, even when i was a size 18, the pants always were too tight, didn't feel/fit right, etc. So, I've been contemplating just going in, getting a size 8 and see if it fits. I've been on a strict budget so haven't done much clothe's shopping, but feel I have to in order to actually know my size! I currently wear size 10, but my clothes is a little baggy. The suspense of knowing that i'd be in a single digit clothing is awesome! Will definitely post when I get my NOW-skinnier butt down to NY&Co and know my ACTUAL clothing size! Congrats at being 138!!! I'm stuck at 140 and have set a goal of 138 before my 7/30 birthday! Best of luck with everything norma 255/140/138
(deactivated member)
on 7/17/05 2:31 pm - Garden Grove, CA
RNY on 08/10/04 with
Topic: RE: New outfit, contacts and still look fat!
Hey there, I had to wear the sweater...my arms are so so ugly! Oh my gosh, so so ugly! I wish I could wear it without but they are spagetti straps and my arms look bad! I looked for a lighter sweater but I could not find it. I wonder if the sweater will be okay for work? What do you think? Thanks for the compliments! I wish I could feel better about myself!
DeniseV
on 7/17/05 1:59 pm - NH
Topic: RE: New outfit, contacts and still look fat!
Hi Kimberly! Wow, girl! You don't look fat at all! You look beautiful! I love the outfit on you. It is very flattering and fun. I would suggest that you not wear the dark sweater, though...not in the summer. That shirt is so cute on its own that just the shirt and the skirt would be great! Maybe the addition of the sweater in the fall would work. I always feel better and feel like I look thinner when I wear form fitting clothes. If my clothes are baggy, or when I wear a lot of layers, I tend to feel heavier. So go for it! Wear form fitting clothes with as few layers as possible. DOn't get me wrong, the sweater is adorable, I just think it takes away from the outfit and you could definitely pull that outfit off without the sweater. I love it! Hugs, Denise
(deactivated member)
on 7/17/05 1:54 pm - Garden Grove, CA
RNY on 08/10/04 with
Topic: RE: New outfit, contacts and still look fat!
Thanks Sweetie! It sucks that I still feel this way, I wish I could get over it! I know with time I will!
Slender_once_again
on 7/17/05 11:56 am - portsmouth, VA
Topic: RE: WOW Moments!
Hi Marianne, I posted my WOW Moment under WAhoooooooooo Yahoooooooo! cause I lost 10 pounds in the past 2 weeks! Not sure why but I am not going to question this. Most of the time I have only lost 3-4 pounds every 5-6 weeks! I have had a moment or two in the dressing rooms where tears ovewhelm me! I also can wear a size 8p but still feel most comfortable in the 10p. even when the sacles seemed stalled my dress/pants size has continued to drop. So the slow weight loss was somewhat acceptable to me ( i am the type that WANTS IT AL NOW! ) One day in the dressing room I had to cal my best friend........ I had actually had on a size 8 Evion Piccone Dresss! I didn't buy it cause I hope that will be tooo big come the time of my Nices late Fall wedding! These WOW MOMENTS are GREAT! CONGRATS Marianne! ! Lisa
MarianneS
on 7/17/05 11:26 am - MD
Topic: RE: Wahooooooooo! YAhoooooooooooooo!
Lisa, 10 pounds to goal! That is awesome! So glad your scale moved doesn't it feel wonderful. Keep up the good work! --Marianne 5'0 256/138/120
MarianneS
on 7/17/05 11:25 am - MD
Topic: RE: New outfit, contacts and still look fat!
Kimberly, First off let me tell you that you look amazing.................so beautiful. You do not look fat at all you look very normal (I know we are not used to being normal but we are). If I saw you out in public I would not think you were fat at all. I know what you mean though about feeling fat. It is something that will probably take time to get over. I know I'll be out in public and think someone (mostly kids or teenagers) are going to make a comment or make fun of me. I fear walking past a group of teenagers. I also can't believe I am wearing a size 8 and still think I'm fat. Before I would have given a left arm to wear a size 8 (LOL) and now I think it is to big for a 5'0 girl to wear. I am crazy I just don't know how to get my mind straight. But once again you look awesome! What a big difference! You don't even look like the same person! Keep your head up! --Marianne 5'0 256/138/120
MarianneS
on 7/17/05 11:17 am - MD
Topic: WOW Moments!
Well..................My favorite store is NY & Co. I have always loved that store but in the beginning of my journey I could not even wear the biggest size there which is an 18. I have not went clothes shopping in so long because funds were short. But this week-end I went to replace my 14 petite dress pants (That I have not worn in a while because they were so big on me). The pants there are awesome (because they have different lengths and I am very short) and I'm thinking I'll get a 10 petite so I grabbed that then thought let me trryyyyy the 8 petite.................so I put on the 10 and they were loose.........I thought OMG then I put on the 8 petite and they fit perfect not tight at all I could probably sqeeze into a 6 petite............I have never been in the single digits in sizes before. This is unreal to me. I was almost crying in the dressing room. Oh yeah and I also bought 3 size small shirts (so weird me wearing a small) Although my scaled hasn't been moving very fast it was nice to see some results while clothes shopping, made me feel better! I just wanted to share my WOW moment with my fellow August babies............I am sure that you guys are beginning to experience many! What are some of your WOW moments? --Marianne 5'0 256/138/120
Christie G.
on 7/17/05 8:50 am - San Pedro, CA
RNY on 08/16/04 with
Topic: RE: 8/16 ers its 11 months!!
WOW, you're doing great!! I am down 144.5 lbs. with 23.5 lbs. to go to goal. Please email me and let me know why you opted out of the arm reduction. I really need one. Christie 338/193.5/170
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