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Topic: Hello! Health and family update
Well, sorry I haven't posted in a while. The summer heat is about to kill me. In fact, my neuro's office called last week with a friendly reminder to stay out of the heat!! Heat is Multiple Sclerosis's brutal enemy!!
Anyway, my weight loss is still the same - weighing in at 187. I think I'm about where I will end up since I need steroids (long term) now. That's okay. BTW, you HAVE to check out this site: www.plasticsurgery.org and look at the "photo gallery" and then check out the "bariatric body reconstruction." It will BLOW YOU AWAY!!!!!!!!!!
I had my appt with the plastic surgeon for July 18th, but then I lost my health insurance (YIKES!!). . so I guess I"ll have to reschedule. Bummer.
Like Leslie Lee just posted, I'm having the same situation with my fibro. The pain is getting worse than better. But I do know that it would be so much worse if I hadn't lost all the weight.
My rheumatologist is still fantastic!! And he totally supports my SS disability application. He feels I'll be approved.
My rheumatoid arthritis has really screwed up my right arm, especially the elbow and wrist. I'm having to learn how to do everything left handed - WHAT a challenge!! Try it - use your opposite hand and see how cumbersome it is!
Oh, and I finally have some answers for my special needs child. Avery is two (almost three) years old, and we've had lots of behavior problems with her. Anyway, after months of testing, she's been diagnosed with 1. disruptive behavior disorder 2. severe organic ADHD 3. expressive/receptive language delay and 4. a sensory processing disorder. Oh, the child study center did say that her disabilities are most likely due to all the negative antibodies in my blood (RA, MA, fibro, and lupus), That does bother me, but it also means I shouldn't have any more children.
Although she has autistic tendencies, the child study center did not feel that she is autistic. I'm very happy!
She is SUCH a handful. She attends a headstart for children with disabilities (which at first was a major source of guilt for me - since I stay at home. But I'm fine with it now. I spend several hours a week volunteering in her classroom.
It's a great experience for both of us!)
Anyway, if anyone knows of any resources for health insurance, please let me know!! I am a little FREAKED out about losing my health insurance. There is a chance I can go COBRA, but it's $500 a month. My state disability check is only $1000 or so. . it would be a rough stretch. Oh, well. . . things will work out - they always do. I have faith.
I found a few medicine programs, and I can get most of my medicine for free now. That is a GREAT thing.
And my rheumie agreed to let me pay him out for his visits. My medicine copays are $300 a month, and getting the medicine for free would be amazing!!
So the only big loss is the abdominoplasty.
That DOES make me sad, but oh, well. If it's meant to be, it will happen.
Anyway, that's about it for me. Still hanging in there, as best we can.




Topic: RE: Health Issues Worsen??!! Why?
Hey Les!
I can totally relate to at least some of what you are saying. Although my MS is still in remission, my rheumatoid arthritis and fibro are FULL BLOWN and each days seems to get worse - instead of better. I am frustrated and angry.
In my heart, I KNOW that I would be much worse off it I was still morbidly obese. .. but it is soooo disheartening to know that the pain is getting worse instead of better.
((( HUGS )))
It does suck when the weight loss isn't a cure all, though. I can relate.
HUGS ((( HUGS ))) Les.
And I'm going to email you!
Les


Topic: RE: 100 lbs. gone !!!!
Thanks so much for the CONGRATS ladies !!!! I'm so glad we are all doing great !!!!
Laura
Topic: RE: Health Issues Worsen??!! Why?
Leslie,
Ask yourself this 'Could all of the medical issues have gotten worse if I hadn't had the surgery?'. You know the answer is yes. In fact, probably worse than they are right now. Skinny people get all of those things too. Sleep apnea USUALLY can be helped with weight loss...but skinny people get SA too. You may need the throat surgery to try to correct the problem.
It's been terrific weather here, hopefully, it is there too. Get out of the house and take a nice long walk...every day if possible! Yes, it will help you physically, but it will mentally as well! Do this for YOU!
Sherri
344/207/140
Topic: Health Issues Worsen??!! Why?
Hello fellow Septembers':
I have done well with losing and just hit a "bump" in the road as far as the scale goes. Having lost 137 pounds, I feel I can push "restart" on the losing again by making small changes. HOWEVER, my repeat sleep study revealed that my Sleep Apnea is now Severe instead of Moderate as it was when I was heavier. I have begun to struggle again with Fibromyalgia pain and my Bipolar "manic" episodes are more frequent. Also, the pulmonologist says I have Asthma now.
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Weird, huh? It was disheartening to find out the above but I will try to control it with meds and exercise. I also find myself "overextending" my time with volunteer work and sitting jobs to "help the family" when in reality Im hurting me. And to think I had begun to question my PENDING SS Disability application (month 21)??!! I guess that "surgery on my stomach, did NOTHING TO FIX MY HEAD!"
Im trying to stay positive even as I sit here without sleep for days.....ULGH!
Best of luck everyone.
STILL NEED A NEW PIC!!!
Leslie
312/174/160-170?


Topic: RE: **9 MONTH pics**
Hey Manda..... you look great! Were you able to find the dress I told you about on that website?
Topic: RE: **9 MONTH pics**
Hey Manda - just saw your profile! I LOVE Gretchen Wilson! Very cool! Hugs, Sandy
Topic: RE: How many Calories?
Hi Em -
Your picture is so adorable! I wish I could figure out how to post mine! My doctor recommends 70 grams of protein, 30 carbs and 800 calories a day til I reach my goal. And no bread, rice, pasta, potatoes, beans and fruit.
I'm usually between 800 and 1000 calories and if I cheat it's with fruit! I dream about fresh juicy pineapple, delicious watermelon, crunchy sweet apples, HA HA! How crazy do I sound?! But, the last 6 weeks have been challenging, I've had cake, tacos, and other "forbidden" foods. I haven't gained any weight because I'm not eating much and when I cheat it might be a few bites, but my weight loss has slowed way down. This week I went back to protein shakes and 1 1/2 meals to get things under control.
Listen to your body. It will decide where you should be and where you can maintain! Congrats on your success! XO, Sandy
268/152/136
