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Topic: RE: SG at Middlesex??
Rich, I have taken the opportunity to attend a couple of LIPO group meetings and those folks are FANTASTIC! If you get the chance to attend, I am sure you would get a lot out of it.
I believe Julie, in Dr. A's office is trying to make some positive changes in the Middlesex Support Group and it certainly needs it. I found it interesting that LIPO is not "sponsored" by any hospital or Doctor's office but was founded by caring post ops (MaryEllen and friends) and I think they went through some OH trainning. We tried to get a shore line meeting together a couple of times last year but it fizzled out. Looking forwrd to meeting you in Rye Brook.
I believe Julie, in Dr. A's office is trying to make some positive changes in the Middlesex Support Group and it certainly needs it. I found it interesting that LIPO is not "sponsored" by any hospital or Doctor's office but was founded by caring post ops (MaryEllen and friends) and I think they went through some OH trainning. We tried to get a shore line meeting together a couple of times last year but it fizzled out. Looking forwrd to meeting you in Rye Brook.
Topic: RE: Finally have a surgery date!
Congratulations Renate! I remember you from one of the pre-op sessions. I wish you the best with your surgery and I look forward to hearing about your success!
Topic: RE: SG at Middlesex??
Hi Rich, the only approach there can be is the 'tough love' approach. I had my surgery nearly 6 years ago and weight gain is a reality and I am struggling with the 20 lbs. I've put back on from my lowest point. While there are definitely physiological and psychological contributing factors to regaining the weight post-surgery, there certainly is no room for social over-eating - ever. Healthy food choices: I ask myself every day before I eat something, "Will this nurture my body or harm it?" At least this holds me accountable before it goes into my mouth. Your strength is inspiring, and I'd love to join you for one of those Long Island meetings! Perhaps we could car pool - thanks for your post, I really needed this! All the best, Maureen
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Topic: RE: SG at Middlesex??
Maureen,
I stopped going because I also got nothing out of them, also at this point nobody wants to hear my tough love approach. I just don't have the patience to listen to people whine and complain about their weight gain and then go out for ice cream afterwards. And to be honest seeing people that have gained weight back scares and angers me, thats why I'm afraid I'd shoot my mouth off. It would also be nice if Dr. A attended his own support groups like the other docs do too. I have some friends that are group leaders out on Long Island and their groups sounds fantastic, they even do activities on saturdays and sundays. I have been invited and plan on going to some of these.
I stopped going because I also got nothing out of them, also at this point nobody wants to hear my tough love approach. I just don't have the patience to listen to people whine and complain about their weight gain and then go out for ice cream afterwards. And to be honest seeing people that have gained weight back scares and angers me, thats why I'm afraid I'd shoot my mouth off. It would also be nice if Dr. A attended his own support groups like the other docs do too. I have some friends that are group leaders out on Long Island and their groups sounds fantastic, they even do activities on saturdays and sundays. I have been invited and plan on going to some of these.
"Death borders upon our birth, and our cradle stands in the grave. Our birth is nothing but our death begun."
Topic: RE: Finally have a surgery date!
Thank you! Hopefully things will go well. I see Dr.Aranow on Tuesday for pre-op.
Renate
Renate
Topic: RE: Heartbroken
I wasn't sure if my insurance would pay for it and I have a great friend that explained it to me this way- "if you needed a car you would take a loan out for that so if you need this surgery then go get a loan for it. You getting healthy is more important then getting a new car."
And you know what? she's right. We always put ourselves last. but we are important. So try to do it.
Good luck.
And you know what? she's right. We always put ourselves last. but we are important. So try to do it.
Good luck.
Topic: RE: Finally have a surgery date!
How great is that! You will be on that loser's bench before you know it and on your way to a new beginning.
All the best.
Sher
Topic: RE: Count down
She's having it the 6th. Depending how long she is there for ya still might see her.
I shall now be know as Hagatha: Queen of the queens. 
Baby 
7-09
Xavier Elliott born 10-5-10
Topic: RE: Count down
WOW! A to G already? Smart little girl ya got there.
I shall now be know as Hagatha: Queen of the queens.
Baby 7-09
Xavier Elliott born 10-5-10
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