i wanted to let everyone know

marthajohnson70
on 9/26/07 3:34 am - Crystal Lake, IL

I am home and could not go through with it... I was scared and worried and I just couldn't do it... So I feel like a fool but I just knew or felt It was not the right time... Thank you everyone for all of your support and help... Love Martha

Ronna
on 9/26/07 3:39 am - Hoffman Estates, IL

RNY on 01/03/06

Oh dear girl you have nothing to appologize for. You have to do what's right for you. And if putting of the surgery or not having it at all is what's right for you, then that's what you have to do.

Regards and hugs,

Ronna

Janet H.
on 9/26/07 3:41 am - Golden Valley, AZ

RNY on 10/30/07

OH Martha, I am sorry you could not do it, If it is to be you will try again, It is better to be 100% sure because once you have this done it is for live, Don't feel Like a fool, You were not ready yet

      Success begins with wise choices I make,I will not let noncompliance be my mistake, The surgery I had was to assist me in changes. My compliance is for a success long range, So I will think before I decide to cheat. Remember the goals I want to meet. For this surgery is not something I was force to do It was what I wanted for a healthy life!

marthajohnson70
on 9/26/07 5:21 am - Crystal Lake, IL

RNY on 11/01/07

Thank You everyone for all your support and help... I am feeling good about my decision but am still sad I didn't do it. Thank you all martha

Karen R.
on 9/26/07 6:04 am

Lap Band on 03/02/07

You have made a wise choice for yourself. You will know when the time is right. We are still here to give you all the support you need.

Karen

ChristineB
on 9/26/07 8:02 am - Western 'Burbs Chgo, IL

RNY on 05/07/03

Martha, Martha, Martha, you will do this at your own time. If you did not go through with it then it is not the right time for you. If and when you decide to have your surgery we all are still here for you. Come back when you feel up to it. Christine

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Lucy M.
on 9/26/07 8:50 am - Conway, SC

DS on 08/25/10

Hi Martha. You will know when it is the right time for you. If you weren't ready today, it wasn't the time for you. Take comfort in your gut feeling and decision today. It will happen if it is the right time for you. Hugs, Lucy

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Pre-op/RNY day/pre DS day/current/goal- Realize Band 5/15/08; RNY 6/8/05, Removal Band and RNY to DS 8/25/10. RNY & Band surgeon was Dr. Guske.

Kim M.
on 9/26/07 8:51 am - Poplar Grove, IL

Lap Band on 03/20/08

Martha.......things happen for a reason and I'm a big believer in that! God has a reason why you didn't have the surgery and God has a reason why I got denied! We may never know why, but there's a reason! We are ALL still here for you and believe in you!!!! Hugs my dear friend!

(deactivated member)
on 9/26/07 10:17 pm - Wood River, IL

RNY on 09/05/06

Martha, It is your decision, and if you feel like now wasn't a good time for you, then great, you have to go by what you feel, and not what the docs and everyone else is telling you. Keep coming back to the boards though. Dee

berts4
on 9/27/07 4:42 am - Rock City, IL

RNY on 10/27/06

Dear Martha: As everyone else has already said, you have nothing to be sorry for. If and when it is right for you it will happen.

In the mean time, don't feel that you don't belong here. We are here for support, pre-op, post-op and non-op!

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