Question

Has anyone had any problems with your boyfriends/girlfriends now liking that you loose weight? It seems when I tell men that I had the surgery they question me and wander why I did it. Im in a size acceptance group where men enjoy their women bigger. I hope I dont have trouble finding dates..LOL

wouldn't "size acceptance" indicate that the group would advocate acceptance or tolerance of you no matter what size you are -- big or small? I didn't have trouble finding dates before.. but I never liked it and was always uncomfortable when men wanted me for how I looked.. not how I was. When I was single, I ran into a lot of fat girl fetishists.. it was creepy. I prefer that someone care for and want to be with ME.. not the body I carry around with me. Stef