OT: A lady called me fat today

 Unbelievable and so untrue!  This woman should be ashamed of herself.  Don't give her that power - she doesn't deserve it, and you need to have a chat with your BF.  *HUGS*

Sam, I wish I could explain what this does to you.  After 4 1/2 years, you'd think I'd be "done"  Apparently not.

 Believe me, I understand you you feel.   I once lost a bunch of weight and was feeling really good.  One day I was taking my dog for a walk.  Some guy held his head out of his car and yelled, "Hey lard ass!"   that still haunts me today.  I really feel for you hon.  I know the feeling.  *HUGS*

In case there is a next time:

I may be fat, but you are just plain ugly, and I can lose weight. ~raise eyebrows and grin with half your face as you walk away~

OK, down 150 here and last weekend a lady asked me if I was pregnant.  Not near as painful as yours, but still makes ya shake your head.

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Thing is... I'm thin.  She is just a *****

I think sometimes people are not very happy in their own lives and the only way to make themselves feel better, is to try and bring other people down to where they are.....I like that you are helping other people with the knowledge you have about wls, I think  she was jealous, I think she looks at you and all you have accomplished, how you are doing now....just plain jealous.......

I wish I had words of wisdom for you. I know, you know, your not fat, it's a shame we carry all this Sh__ with us forever.  It's ok to be sad, we all get that way sometimes, but you know you are wonderful and beautiful.

As far as the bf goes, well I don't have much to say.

Except mine (bf) read the first line over my shoulder and was "who called you fat?", I told him about you leaving and the bf staying, and he's like and............ they are clueless they really are, it is shocking how dumb they are. Mine has been there every step of the way for me but can still be so dumb.  Not making excuses for yours, cause he needs a talkin to.

The lady, well I won't even touch that one..........some people are just RUDE AND DUMB

Go look in the mirror, you look fabulous!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hi Karen, I hope you are feeling better now. You are so not fat!!! This woman deserves a slap upside the head (I'm not usually violent)...take care, hon. xoxo Donna

I think everyone has given you good advice hon, so I'll just send you big hugs!

Oh and I'm pretty good in a scrap too...just sayin!

 NEVER let anyone make you feel less than the Goddess that you ARE, Karen!!