I wanna dance

I am having such a hard time this weekend.  I went out with a couple people on Thursday night bar hopping.  We all had a great time.  The two other people got wasted and I was the driver, seeing that I couldn't really drink that much.  It didn't matter to me that I couldn't drinik because I had a great time dancing and enjoying be looked at.  (Hubby doesn't look at me like that anymore)

Having said that, I have had this bad itch to go out to a dance club.  I've been calling people for the past two days to come out with me last night and tonight but no one is available or wants too.  What am I going to do.  I am getting frustrated and depressed because I really had my heart set on it.  I can't go by myself although it did cross my mind too but I don't think hubby would like it if I went by myself because it will probably look like I'm available.  When I clearly am not.  Hubby is out of town, otherwise I would be dragging him kicking and screaming to take me out.  

I am so mad that no one is available for a good time.  WTH.  Would you go to a bar by yourself???? 

Yes I would go by myself and i will. and I have lol

It's funny, how "going out to a bar" immediately has such ... AVAILABLE ... connotations.
I really enjoy the atmosphere and the company and the music ... but I'm certainly not shopping for a hunka hunka.
But that's the way it sounds, as soon as you say "going out to bar".

I find (in Toronto at least) that we do have choices. For example, there are some great cafes that are open late, and they are not pickup joints where the girls have to dress like ho's to get noticed. It isn't necessary to go to a place where being alone would immediately make everyone assume what you're there for.

Such a pity that guys can go and just "be" in a bar, but we still can't. Well, we can, obviously, like L'il Stinker says, but are we comfortable?

As a single woman, I would have gone by myself.  As a married woman, no.  I'm a little concerned about such strong emotions at not being able to go out to a bar.