Bad News 2 Days Before Surgery

pinkjellybean
on 1/23/12 12:58 pm - Canada
VSG on 01/25/12
My step-father's dear sweet grandmother (90 years old) who has been in my life since I was 15 passed away tonight from a bleeding brain tumor.  I am soooooo sad that  I am not going to get to be at the funeral because I will be in hospital recovering from surgery.  

I could already feel my anxiety and stress start to mount as the night went on....my husband and I were bickering and we rarely fight.  I was able to recognize it was because I was feeling nervous about surgery but then this bad news came and I've just been kind of moping tonight. 

Sucks.

SURGERY at Toronto Western Hospital - VSG JANUARY 25th, 2012!!

5'9 - HW - 390 SW - 368.8  GW - 150

    

JJ_
on 1/23/12 2:29 pm
Oh no!  My condolences to you and your family.  I am sure your great grandmother would want the best for you and your health.

Judy
Monica M.
on 1/23/12 7:42 pm - Penetanguishene, Canada
My condolences.

It's good that you can recognize where that bickering was coming from. You earned the right to mope. Hugs.
        
Vi-Vi
on 1/23/12 7:54 pm
VSG on 12/13/12
 Hugs for sure such a difficult time but your great grandmother knows your thoughts will be with her.  Judy is right also, your grandmother would want you to think of your wellbeing!  She knows you love her! Now she will take care of you!!
Peel1234
on 1/23/12 8:02 pm
I'm so sorry for you and your family's loss.  Lots of support and hugs sent your way.  Diane

Will take a kayaking trip summer 2012, freedom

Megan M.
on 1/23/12 8:17 pm - Canada
So very sorry for your loss.  I'm sure your family will understand, and I'm sure you'll have an extra angel watching over you.

Had RNY surgery July 22/11, St. Joe's Hamilton, with the awesome Dr. Scott Gmora.  Had abdominoplasty August 2/13, Scarborough, with equally awesome Dr. Michael Kreidstein.

TBIYTC
on 1/23/12 8:27 pm - Ontario, Canada
VSG on 02/29/12
My condolences to you and your family.  I am sure your grandmother will be cheering you on!

 TBIYTC-The Best Is Yet To Come Referral-Mar 2011   Surgery Feb 29th, 2012

 

 

 

Brenda T.
on 1/23/12 9:06 pm - Oshawa, Canada
RNY on 05/14/12
aww I'm so sorry for your loss.
Stay strong.

Brenda             Visit my profile for timelines                         My  is Monica M.
      

Joyce J.
on 1/23/12 9:08 pm - Scarborough, Canada
Hi there

So sad to read this news of yours.

Your heart will be at the funeral while you are in hospital. Mourn, cry. She will be looking down on you.

Hugs

Joyce----Today is the first day of the rest of your life

 

(deactivated member)
on 1/23/12 9:12 pm - Kingston, Canada
RNY on 05/25/12
So Sorry for your families loss. Everyone is right. She knows you love her and she will be there watching over you now. Try your best to stay focused on all the good memories. HUGS
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