I don't usually do this.........

Sow us your roots

 Love this post.  well done!

sry u had some troubles Karen, but I'm now understanding how u and others feel as the longer we r out of surgery i guess the newbies think we get stupid and no longer study,read or learn about this surgery and we r now considered out dated ... i just went through a few episodes of drama and i will just just shut the f*%k up and gonna let them figure it out as its not worth me to stress over or cause More issues on top of my own ... not like I've had a ride with this surgery and have been seeing my GP monthly or the st Joe's team every other month scopes from top n bottom but yup i know jack **** so I'm just keeping my opinion to my self now.

Any ways gf keep doing what u like to do and f*%k the rest ur an awesome person and friend to all who is willing to listen for ur advise right or wrong we can only take it the way we want to.

have a great day


Joy


oh and ppl calling the hospital team over every lil' bump in the rd just drives Krista nuts that is the reason she dont return calls omfg ppl need to read listen n learn then judge whats best for urself .....unles it involves major pain that exceeds longer then 4 hours .. well thats what DR G tells me any ways, but i don't know jack ****

Joy, I hope you'll try and make it out for lunch on June 16th.  Or at the very least coffee in a couple of weeks that I haven't yet planned. lol

 oh thanks Karen i willl try n do my best for the lunch date !! i need a visit 

 I think that some people who post really don't want to hear the answer. I've been through a lot and posted about my ordeal. Not for sympathy but to let others know what the signs were. I got a private pm from someone who told me I shouldn't post those thinngs because I was scaring them.
I was mad for awhile and then forgot her. Keep posting and don't worry because others read your posts. I do.
Kelly

Someone told you not to post because you're situation scared her?  Oh my gawd, that is just so silly!  And how is that supportive of YOU and what you're going through?  Sheesh.

 Holy crap, told you NOT to post?!  Are people living in a hole?!?!  

This is REALITY.  This surgery CAN have complications.  Anyone who doesn't want to know about them needs to take their name off the waiting list for surgery and stick their heads back in the sand and wait for the sky to fall! 

 omfg lmfao now that is way to funny, i to have had a few set backs n yes this is reality some just cant handle it then ***** when something happens to them and say well i didnt know or what do i do ... i say do what ur DOCTOR n TEAM tells ya no duhhhh ... any ways thi=anks all for some much need giggles, as i felt a bit down .. n oh thats another portion of this surgery as well some ppl just don't realize how much this is an impact with ur mind as well as ur body ..

Joy

Please post.  One - we worry about you.  Two - it is very helpful  and three - as a newbie, I need to know what I am signing up for.  My initial "weeeeeeee....this is GREAT!"  has settled down to a more thoughtful and educated attitude towards what I am contemplating doing to my body.


Trust me.  I have been reading everything you vets have to say and absorbing it and really thinking about it.