Lonely

DrHollywood
on 9/30/11 2:39 pm - Harbor City, CA

Hi,
With all the work I have been doing, I feel alot out of touch with OH, friends, OA, going out, just stuff, bills, calling friends,,,, oh sooooo much more.

I feel lonely and overwhelmed a lot lately. I am hanging in there but tonight I just feel a little loney and also i have anxiety and I really cannot figure out why. I know this will pass. I just need to express this. I am grateful to you all and to OH. I am VERY glad OH is here right this very second.
Love all of you.

Huuugs

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                                    " HippyDippyland 60's" July 16th (169.8)

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MyOwnSunshine
on 9/30/11 2:43 pm

VSG on 09/13/11

I get that. My life is pretty busy and full, and is definitely on a positive course, but sometimes I get lonely, too. Knowing that it will pass doesn't make it any easier in the moment, though.

" I am not at all concerned with appearing to be consistent. In my pursuit after Truth I have discarded many ideas and learnt many new things." Ghandi

krystals
on 9/30/11 2:46 pm - TX

VSG on 07/15/11

Awwww sweetie hugs to you. I know how you feel we become consumed with everything and you think to yourself am I any fun anymore. But hon it will pass sometime when you slow down and take things in you become lonely. You have been a wealth of help specially to me after I had my surgery. You have so much info that you don't mind sharing and me your OH sister is here for you. Now go get you some Valium and a Zanex and relax. Lol hugs it will get better.

mslindsay1983
on 9/30/11 6:53 pm - Canada

VSG on 06/15/11 with

Awwww babe...feeling lonely is awful. Thinking of you...be strong!!! When you feel anxious BREATH! Focus on taking a deep breath in and feeling it rise up thru you and exhale...and reapeat 10 times! Seriously, works like a charm....love you pretty lady!!!

Happy966
on 9/30/11 10:55 pm

VSG on 08/29/11

Big hugs back attcha, Doc! I hate that free-floating anxiety. It will definitely pass, you're so right. I hate being lonely too. You have helped me so much, and I think about you often, looking to see if you've posted something. We're all grateful for you too!! Hang in there!

:) Happy

53 yrs old, 5'6" HW: 293 ConsW: 273 SW: 263 CW: 206

lucy2e
on 9/30/11 11:00 pm - Laurel, MD

VSG on 06/01/11

Hope your Saturday is much happier/calm then last night - hugs!

Lucy (Imma Loser!)

HW 335 SW 311 CW 181.2 -- Goals: Twoderville - 6/7/11, 280 - 7/1/11, 260 - 8/1/11, 240 - 10/30/11 Centry Club - 11/22/11, 220 - 12/27/11 Onederland - 5/25/12, 180 - , 170 (surgeons goal) -
We shall see where this leads...

Dawnie 88
on 9/30/11 11:42 pm

VSG on 04/16/10

Huge hugs..I know what you mean..i feel that way alot too..i wish we all lived close by..we'd come over and keep you company! I could use a good friend

acbbrown
on 10/1/11 12:38 am - Granada Hills, CA

VSG on 06/10/11

Aww Mary - Im just relaxing this weekend if you want to meet up. Just give me a call.

Im sorry you're going through this, but you still have such a great attitude!

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11/16/12 - Got my Body by Sauceda - arms, Bl/BA, LBL, thigh lift.

HW 420/ SW 335 /CW 200 85 lbs lost pre-op / 135 post op

~~~~Alison~~~~~

percheron
on 10/1/11 1:08 am

VSG on 08/30/11

I was thinking about everything we are going through since having surgery. Doesn't matter if it was yesterday, a week ago or longer....we are still learning emotionally and phyiscally.

I told my husband that I feel like I have been reborn, but instead of having the infant, toddler, and teen years to learn everything, we are re-learning in moments of time...so emotionally it is very overwhelming.

You have done an awesome job, you have been a great mentor here and with all the new you have going on in your life, it's no wonder you are feeling so many different emotions.

Keep talking when you feel this way, and keep remembering all you have done in these last few months for yourself/life and others.

Keeping you in my thoughts, remember you are not alone and there are many on here that can relate and offer comfort.

boomercd
on 10/1/11 1:25 am - OH

VSG on 08/22/11

Hey Doc, we miss you too, Soo sorry you are going through such a stressful time, but this too will pass. you always have us, and if we lived closer we could all show up at your house for a group hug!! but I guess this will have to do for now. you have always been such an inspiration to us. head up! take it one step at a time, your not alone!! you have all of us. tomorrow will be better!!!...........hugs

I'm Still a work in progress, I wont give up the quest to reclaim my life, I will be whole again someday!
HW297 SW269 CW 213

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