OT-friend wants me to do what!!??

Hi, I know this is really strange but I really do need some advise, I have a friend that I work with and since I have lost a lot of weight I have been asked by this friend if I could walk on thier chest and face!I think its really strange and bizzare and even offered to walk on thier back instead.I really dont want to loose this friendship. They had even sent me an email with an video attached with an example and offered to pay me. Should I be offended by the offer of payment? Has anyone else on here heard of walking on someone elses chest and face?? Please help advise needed deperately.

Ummm. Personally that sounds very odd to me.  Don't think I would do it even if I was thin.   If you lose a friendship over saying no I don't think it was a true friendship. Christina

Yes, I thought it sounded very odd as well. He even sent me a video with a girl walking on a guys chest and face and at the beginning she had high heels on!! and he told me it would be cool for me to do it like her in the video. This is the video that was sent to me. I was shocked when I seen it. Thank u for responding now I feel a little better knowing that Im not the only one thinking its weird.

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Sounds like this "friend" wants to get a little freaky deaky if you ask me.  Yup I'd walk on his face in high heels alright.  Stilettos in fact. lol  Anyhow, I think you know in your heart what the right answer is.  God Bless!!

Oh my goodness! Thank u both sooo much! I had the feeling deep down that it was something like a sexual fetish but I didnt want to believe it because we are just friends and he knows that Im married. I know he wants to hang around me alot but I thought it normal because I have alot of friends and I was told I had a bubbly personality. Thank u soooo much for both of ur advise.

I saw this on an HBO program and it is totally sexual.  I think you should really think about it.

Your friend has a fetish is all, and he wants to share it with you. Don't be offended, if anything, be flattered. It's very personal and intimate to include someone in your fetish like that...much more intimate than sex. If you're not into it or him, just let him know, be nice about it though if you cherish your friendship. Don't insult him just because what he's into is different. To each their own....no judgements :-)

I will let him know nicely that im not into it because he is a nice friend.Thank u for advise. I really do love this board. Usually Im just a lurker but I had found out lately just how caring and helpful everyone is on here. Thank u and God Bless

No problem :-) After reading one of your other responses though, I wanted to add something. You mention that this friend knows you're married yet likes to spend a lot of time with you. I just want to say, be careful. I had a friend at work, someone who has known my husband for years etc....well he sexually assaulted me 2 weeks after I got home from my honeymoon. Sometimes, only SOMETIMES, you need to keep your guard up around male friends who want to spend too much time with you... (I'm not trying to scare you, I just wouldn't want to see you hurt - I'm also not saying that all men are like this, but we do need to be careful sometimes being friendly seems to be taken the wrong way) Hugssss