Offended but justified?

I would have kicked him out the front door immediatly, that is not someone I would EVER want in my life or around my kids. Period.

 That comment is almost psychopathic in its cruelty.  He either realized he was being cruel and didn't care or he's an emotionally stunted broken person.  Either way he needs to hit the bricks.

 It's all been said. He's clearly not a kind man. You know what to do.

*****!!!!!!! There are no words to describe how horrible I feel he treated you!! You will find someone that is worthy of you and its not him!!!

 Elina said it perfectly.  This guy does not deserve you, and lack of empathy is a hallmark personality trait of sociopaths.   

I agree with everybody above...keep your head up and kick him to the curb, pronto!

Humor without diplomacy is hostility. This is a man with a cruel streak. Get him away from you and your kids.

I also went through being single after surgery and having the hanging skin and battle scars that go with a post WLS body. I never told one person I dated about my surgery. When I met my significant other I knew he was the one for me right away bc he knew about my surgery the first night, I was that comfortable with him. And I am a LUCKY girl, he is blinded by love lol. He truly thinks im the most beautiful person, I swear he looks at me with beer goggle retinas bc he sees no scars, hanging skin, cellulite, etc. I think in his head I look like a playboy bunny.

Thats what you deserve! Someone who is like my sweetheart!

 Anyone that would laugh at you and mock your success??? EFF HIM. He showed his true character and there is no back pedaling from that.

 When people show you who they are, believe them. He showed you- so believe him. 

What a tool.  I think I would have punched him if he had commented on my kids.  That is uncalled for.

Have fun breaking up with him!! 

I'm sorry this hapened to you, but ya, I wouldn't see this man again either.  What a toad.