No, you are not a failure.
Very well said.
My last 5 lbs of regain took me 6 months to lose... But in that 6 months I developed eating style that is helping me maintain my weight .... So far so good.
Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG
"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"
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"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."
One thing I have learned is that I only fail when I stop trying.
I failed my first surgery and I learned so much from the whole experience and now I know the warning signs to watch out for.
I am not perfect and I am learning all the time. I have never been a normal size for this long so I have no experience to draw on but I have a wealth of resources here on OH from people who have.
I make a lot of "mistakes" but I never let them cause me to give up. I just resolve to do better next time. My goal is to just do the best I can and move on. I have learned that sometimes that doing a little is better than doing nothing.
WLS 10/28/2002 Revision 7/23/2010
High Weight (2002) 240 Revision Weight (2010) 220 Current Weight 115.







